Lay Photo Envy To Rest | Boudoir Photographer in Phoenix, Gilbert, Mesa, Chandler, AZ
Have you ever found yourself with a case of photo envy?
I sat down with a client the other day for her boudoir consultation and she says to me something like this
“ I’ve always fantasized about being like the women in these photos. You know the perfectly curated photographs — a woman standing in her power with tastefully crafted make up and the breath taking light behind her. She looks so confident and so beautiful. I love that. It inspires me…
I want to create that feeling with my boudoir shoot.
I want to feel that”.
What I loved most about this conversation is that she talked these women up so courageously.
She didn’t waste her energy by cringing at the untruth - the trap we sometimes fall in of thinking that moment and feeling is reserved for women like someone else. NOPE.
She talked in a way that celebrated all women and their ability to step into their more confident self and live out their own moment.
She believed in herself and our ability to create something beautiful together that would inspire her to feel that way, too.
But there’s another side that we don’t talk about much. Not publicly anyway… Another direction the conversation could have gone. I’m talking about photo envy. Ever caught it?
I have. And, so many other women have to. I’m talking about when you see another like the woman pictured, standing in her moment, and
you find yourself looking with envy instead of elation.
Let’s not fall into that, babe. I don’t want to live there in that crippling space, do you? Because,
being envious, love
— is poisonous to your spirit.
The women in these photographs are gorgeous. Yes. They deserved every bit of standing in their power and feeling like a queen. And you do too! You don’t have to envy her. Celebrate her instead. Then take the next step towards investing in your own confidence.
Celebrate yourself!
I’m telling you, babe. The quickest way to cure photo envy is to do a shoot for you. Find your why, seek for what inspires you, fantasize and evolve your most confident self as we bring that vision to life by doing your own boudoir shoot
— the photo shoot of your dreams that celebrates you and gives you the same gift of confidence as the women in the photos that you see.
Lay jealousy and envy to rest, babe. Let it inspire you to step into your own power, instead.
When you are ready to experience a boudoir photo shoot for yourself, when you desire to feel like that and find it in you to trust the process you WILL see the transformation for yourself. We will talk through your why, move through your self conscious and design a photo shoot that will inspire you to love yourself more and see yourself as the confident and empowered woman that you are.
