How Nervous Is Too Nervous For A Boudoir Session? | Arizona Boudoir Photographer in Mesa, Gilbert, Scottsdale, Phoenix

How Nervous Is Too Nervous for a Boudoir Session?

If you've ever asked yourself, "Am I too nervous to do a boudoir session?"—you're in very good company.

Because here is the truth:

There really isn't such a thing as too nervous.

In fact, if you weren't a little nervous, I'd probably be surprised.

Nearly every woman who walks through the doors of Bella Jade Boudoir tells me the same thing:

"I'm so nervous."

Some worry they won't know how to pose.

Some haven't worn lingerie in years (or ever!).

Others are convinced they're "not photogenic" or compare themselves to the women they've seen online.

And almost all of them quietly wonder...

"Can I really do this?"

The answer is always yes.

Every Woman You See Here Started Somewhere Where You Are

Take a look through our gallery and you'll see women who look radiant, confident, and completely at ease.

What you don't see is what happened just before those photographs were taken.

The deep breath before they walked through the studio door.

The nervous laugh.

The "I almost canceled this morning."

The uncertainty.

The butterflies.

Those women weren't professional models.

Most had never done anything like this before.

Many believed they weren't confident enough—or that they had to lose weight first.

Yet by the end of their session, something had changed.

They were laughing.

Relaxed.

Standing a little taller.

Smiling in a way they hadn't in years.

Not because the nerves magically disappeared...

But because they realized they were capable of so much more than fear had led them to believe.

You Don't Need to Know How to Pose

One of the biggest worries I hear is:

"What if I look awkward?"

You won't.

Because posing isn't your responsibility—it's mine.

From the moment your boudoir session begins, I'll guide you through everything.

Every pose.

Every hand placement.

Every expression.

Every little adjustment that flatters your body and highlights your natural beauty.

You'll never be left wondering what to do next.

No modeling experience required.

No Pinterest practice.

No pressure to "know how."

Just show up exactly as you are.

I'll take care of the rest.

Confidence Isn't a Requirement

This might be the biggest misconception about boudoir.

Women often think they need confidence before they book.

But confidence isn't what brings women into our Arizona studio.

It's often what they leave with.

A boudoir session isn't about proving you're already confident.

It's about giving yourself the opportunity to see yourself differently.

Sometimes all it takes is one experience—one moment of courage—to completely change the way you see the woman staring back in the mirror.

"What If I'm Still Nervous on the Day of My Session?"

Then we'll simply take it one step at a time.

Before your shoot you’ll get to have a one on one consultation with your boudoir photographer.

But that doesn’t mean ALL of your nerves will vanish before your session. But don’t worry.

Day of we'll chat while you're being pampered with professional hair and makeup.

We'll go over the outfits you brought together.

I'll answer every lingering question you have.

We'll ease into the session naturally, without rushing a single moment.

There is no expectation that you arrive fearless.

My job isn't just to create beautiful photographs.

It's to create an experience where you feel comfortable, supported, celebrated, and completely cared for from beginning to end.

So...How Nervous Is Too Nervous?

The answer?

There isn't a magic level of confidence you have to reach before you're "ready."

If your nerves are saying,

"I've never done anything like this before..."

that's completely normal.

It doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.

It often means you're about to give yourself an experience that has the power to change the way you see yourself.

Months from now, you probably won't remember how nervous you felt before walking into the studio.

You'll remember seeing your images for the first time.

You'll remember the confidence.

The pride.

The joy.

And you'll remember thinking:

"I can't believe I almost talked myself out of this."

Your Future Self Will Be So Glad You Said Yes

If you've been searching for a luxury boudoir photographer in Mesa, Phoenix, Scottsdale, Gilbert, or anywhere in Arizona, consider this your sign.

Don't wait for the nerves to disappear.

They may never completely go away.

Instead, trust that you don't have to do this alone.

At Bella Jade Boudoir, I'll be with you every step of the way—guiding you, encouraging you, and reminding you just how incredible you already are.

One day, you'll look back on this experience and wonder why you waited so long.

Let's make that day today.

"I Almost Didn't Book a Boudoir Session". Here Are the 5 Lies Women in Phoneix, Mesa. Gilbert, and Scottsdale Tell Themselves Before Finally Saying Yes.

Women often say they're booking for:

• Their husband

• Their anniversary

• A gift

But the truth?

They're booking because they want to feel like themselves again.

Most women in Phoenix, Mesa, Gilbert, and Scottsdale are not thinking: ❌ "I need boudoir photos so that I have something sexy to gift my significant other”

Now don’t let me convince you that’s not a great reason to get boudoir photos because it absolutely is! Having something to surprise your husband on your anniversary, before the wedding, on his birthday or just because is an incredible unexpected treat and has its added bonuses for the both of you! But if we stopped there I wouldn’t be telling the whole truth, because underneath the gift idea women are actually thinking…

"I don't feel like myself anymore."

"I've lost confidence."

"I've gained weight."

"I'm getting older."

"I want to feel beautiful again."

For that I wanted to share the 5 Lies Women Tell Themselves Before Finally Saying Yes. Just in case you’re feeling it too. I want you to know you are not alone!

Lie #1: I Need To Lose Weight First

Do you know how many times at Bella Jade I’ve heard this one! Too many to count. And it pains me because I know how much doing a boudoir session can change the way you see yourself if only you’d seu YES!. The woman who says she's too big and the woman who says she's too small are usually standing in the same studio. And it’s the same woman that walks out shocked at how beautiful she felt regardless of any number on the scale!

Lie #2: I'm Not Photogenic

Fine. You don’t know how to pose, or what to do with your hands. That’s normal. You’re not a professional model and that’s entirely okay. Good news is you’re in good hands at Bella Jade Boudoir. We will show you how to pose and coach you head to toe, even guide you through facial expressions! Midway through the shoot something will shift. You’ll start to trust your body, build confidence as you go, and start to realize its not that scary in fact posing for boudoir photos will be exciting, fun, and liberating!

Lie #3: Boudoir Is Only For Young Women

This is huge for Arizona. There is a lot of pressure to look young, and thriving! And with most of social media hammering that idea into our heads it’s no wonder why someone might think that only young women get boudoir photos. But believe it or not most women we work with at Bella Jade Boudoir are 30, 40, 50, 60!

They are

• Moms, Empty Nesters

• Business Women, Entreprenuers, Housewives

• Single, Married, Divorced

• Reaching Milestones

• Recovering From Losses, Setbacks, or Health Scares

• Women looking to find themselves, see themselves, regain their confidence, and love themselves at any season of their life.

Lie #4: I Need A Reason

A woman does not need:

• A wedding

• An anniversary

• Valentine's Day

To get boudoir photos. She can do it because she wants to. Period.

Lie #5: I'll Book Someday

This is the ultimate killer. If you’re still telling yourself you’ll book someday, then you won’t. Let’s be honest with each other here, babe. How long have you been putting this off already? A month, a year, two years, five years, more? When will it be okay enough for you to do something for yourself?

Sure some women have waited years before booking, but it never fails that those same women look back at their photoshoot, the experience, and their photos and think “I cant believe I waited so long? I almost didn’t book the shoot!. They’ll tell you “Just do it, you won’t regret it.”

“… Spent the whole morning laughing and having fun! I would absolutely do this again!! If you are questioning whether or not you want to get boudoir photos...GET THEM!! It is an experience you will never forget. You will never regret. And you will have the photos forever!” — Miss A (2025)

”Christina is amazing! This was a perception altering experience.” — Miss E (2017)

”I have nothing but good things to say about my experience with Christina at the Bella Jade Collection! She made me feel comfortable, the shoot was so fun, and the pictures were incredible. Highly highly recommend!! — Miss A (2026)

”If you are on the fence about doing a shoot - just do it and pick Christina - there will be no regrets, I promise. She is amazing in so many ways and makes you feel the same!” — Miss J (2020)

So no, don’t let the days, months, or years pass you by! You were enough then, and you’re enough now. And chances are saying Yes to the boudoir shoot, then doing it, will be the most empowering thing you’ll ever get the chance to do for yourself!

Why? Women don’t do boudoir sessions just for the pretty pictures—they do it for the feeling of seeing themselves differently. For the confidence and the proof that that are strong, beautiful, brave and worthy of being seen, loved, and celebrated just as they are right now!

If you’ve been thinking of doing this for months or even years, this is your moment!
You don't need to lose weight.
You don't need to be more confident.
You don't need permission.

You simply need to decide that you're worth loving right now.

At Bella Jade Boudoir in Mesa, Arizona our boudoir photography sessions include:

a consultation, professional hair and make-up, private boiudoir studio, beauty retouching, image reveal, custom ordering appointment, and gorgeous luxury product options that embody just how special this experience was to you — so that you can be reminded just how confident you felt everytime you look back on your photos!

Get on our schedule today for an empowering boudoir experience you will never forget!

Boudoir Client says "Just do it! You won’t regret it." | Mesa Boudoir Photos

Bella Jade Boudoir Client says "Just do it! You won’t regret it."

What inspired you to do a boudoir photoshoot?

I put it on my bucket list as a way of rediscovering my sexuality after a breakup. I also wanted to document being young and hot!

Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir in Mesa, Arizona for your boudoir photos?

The photos I saw were amazing. Christina was incredibly responsive and made it really easy to book.

Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?

I am working on my self-confidence but it’s improved a lot over the last year.

Did you have any fears going into this and were you able to overcome them?

Maybe just the fears that they wouldn’t look good because I wasn’t capable of looking hot? After seeing the photos—no concerns there!

What was your favorite part about your boudoir experience?

Honestly it was just fun! The girls made me feel so good and confident.

Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photoshoot?

Just do it! You won’t regret it.

Would you recommend Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?

100000%

have you been Putting off Booking your Boudoir Photoshoot with us in Mesa?

The self esteem boost you’ll get from doing a shoot like is real, and so are the women you see on our website! These women are not models, but you’d never tell that from the photos because they exude so much beauty! That could be you too! But don’t worry — we only share photos that our clients approve. The ultimate goal? For you to experience the power of boudoir for yourself! Whether it’s 100% private or not either way, we would love to photograph you! Let us help you realize your beauty so that you feel so much more confident in your own skin! Because, every woman deserves to feel loved, sexy and empowered, including yourself!

Im just not that “Photogenic” can i still do a Boudoir Session? | Mesa Boudoir Photographer

I’m just not that “Photogenic” can I still do a Boudoir Session?

Short answer? Absolutely! ✨

A common misconception: you must be photogenic to get great boudoir photos. At Bella Jade Boudoir we hear this often …

“I’m awkward in photos.”
“I would never know how to pose.”
“I’m just not that photogenic.”

And honestly? If you feel this way at first you are SO not alone.

Almost every woman who walks through our doors feels nervous in the beginning— even the confident ones. We’re often our own biggest critics, and it’s so easy to focus on every little thing we wish we could change. But here’s the truth:

Being “photogenic” is not a prerequisite to do a boudoir shoot. In fact, even if being in front of camera doesn’t immediately come natural to you its achievable for almost anyone. I know, right now you probably do not believe but hear me out —

Having great boudoir photos is not reserved for models or influencers.
And it definitely isn’t about having the “perfect” body either.

Expert posing
Soft, flattering lighting
The right angles
Genuine connection
And a photographer who knows how to bring out your confidence ✨

All come together

to create the sexiest and most captivating portraits of yourself you’ve ever seen!

And a confidence like you’ve never felt before! Which is why doing a boudoir session feels so empowering. Its you, in a light that helps you realize how stunning and capable you already are!

NO modeling experience needed!
That’s right, you do not need to know what to do with your hands, know how to pose or “look sexy”.
And you absolutely do not need to change yourself before booking a session.

You are already worthy of being celebrated exactly as you are — right now.

At Bella Jade Boudoir, our job is to guide you every step of the way. We’ll coach you through every pose, every expression, and every movement so you never feel awkward or alone in front of the camera. Think of us as your personal hype girls the entire time. 💋

We help with:
• Flattering posing for every body type
• Outfit and styling guidance
• Lucious lighting that highlights your natural beauty
• Encouragement and support throughout your session
• Natural retouching that still looks like YOU

And something magical happens during these sessions:
You start to see yourself differently.

Not through the lens of insecurity or comparison — but through confidence, softness, strength, and beauty.

By the end of your session, most women say the same thing:
“Wow… I can’t believe that’s me.”

So no, you do not have to be “photogenic” to do boudoir.
You just need to show up as yourself.
We’ll take care of the rest. ✨

Are you ready to feel amazing?

Contact your Phoenix Boudoir Photographer at Bella Jade Boudoir to get started planning your very our boudoir session with us!

New Year, New Space, Same Unwavering Love for Helping Women! | Bella Jade Boudoir Photography in Mesa, Arizona

Huge News for the New Year — We’ve moved!

We’re stepping into the next chapter—new space, same unwavering love and passion for helping women come home to themselves!

Your Boudoir Photographer, Christina Storto

Bella Jade Boudoir is the ultimate space where women come to celebrate, step out of their everyday life, shed their insecurities, realize their beauty, and fall back in love with themselves — again, and again!

If you’ve been waiting for a sign to book your boudoir session… this is it. 🖤Because we are so back and can’t wait to share this experience with you! Book your boudoir session and let’s create something beautiful together!

Now Booking 2026 Boudoir Photography Sessions at a new location near Downtown Mesa!

Miss C. shares her Boudoir Experience as a Returning Client Ready to Re-claim her Confidence | Best Boudoir Photographer in Arizona serving Phoenix, Mesa, Gilbert, and Scottsdale.

It’s Okay to Need the Reminder.

Confidence isn’t just a one-time achievement. It’s a relationship with yourself that you nurture, when you feel great, when life feels heavy or uncertain, or when you want to make sure to keep your self love alive!

Choosing to do a boudoir shoot again is a way of saying “I choose me—still”

And maybe that’s what you need right now. Not a drastic change. Not a new version of yourself. Just a moment to pause, reflect, and stand in your beauty inside and out.

Yes, love. It’s okay if you need a reminder: a day for yourself to re-claim your confidence. Because confidence isn’t something we find once and keep forever. It’s something we come home to—again and again.

Which is why so many of our boudoir clients come back to our Scottsdale boudoir studio for multiple boudoir sessions! As a reminder to themselves, a continued commitment to self love, and a celebration of womanhood and life’s changing seasons.

Here what Miss C. says about her third boudoir session with us:

What inspired you to pursue a boudoir session?

It was time.

Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale, Arizona for your boudoir experience?

I've worked with Christina 2 other times and each time I am impressed with her pictures.

Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?

I have always been a work in progress. I mean who isn't right? I chose to do these pictures for myself. It's about damn time I start choosing myself :)

Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them? Anything you wish you would have done differently?

Nope. This is my 3rd session with Christina and they just keep getting better!

What was your favorite part about your boudoir experience?

All of it! Christina knows how to make you feel amazing!!

Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photoshoot?

Do it. You'll feel amazing during the whole thing and you might walk away with a smidge more confidence than you had before!

Would you recommend Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?

Heck yeah

Are you thinking about getting boudoir photos in Scottsdale Arizona?

If you’re thinking about trying a shoot like this or coming back for a second session, a third, or even a fourth — just do it. You were enough then, you’re enough now, and you always will be!

Why Every Woman—Yes, At Every Size—Deserves a Scottsdale Boudoir Photoshoot in Just Sheets| Best Boudoir Photography in Scottsdale, Phoenix, Gilbert, Arizona

Why Every Woman—Yes, Every Size—Deserves a Scottsdale Boudoir Photoshoot in Just Sheets

There’s something timeless, raw, and incredibly liberating about a boudoir photoshoot in nothing but soft, flowing sheets. If you’re brave enough to try it this will be one of the most empowering and transformative moments you’ll ever experience as a woman! Because boudoir photography isn’t just about looking sexy—it’s about feeling powerful, worthy, and deeply beautiful in your own skin. The more you step out of your comfort zone, the more confident you’ll become. And that’s exactly why every woman, especially plus-size women, should have a boudoir shoot in sheets on her self love list.

It’s Not About Size, It’s About Confidence

Let’s be clear: beauty doesn’t come in a single size. Confidence, sensuality, softness, strength—they all radiate from within, not from a clothing tag. Whether you're a size 2 or a size 22, your body tells a story that deserves to be celebrated.

Doing a boudoir shoot in just sheets strips everything back—literally and emotionally. No fancy lingerie, no distractions. Just you, your curves, your expressions, and your power. The sheets become a canvas, and you are the masterpiece!

The Ultimate Act of Self-Love

Boudoir is not about being perfect. It’s about owning who you are, right now, in this moment. For many women, especially those who have spent years battling unrealistic beauty standards, stepping in front of the camera can feel revolutionary.

But here’s the truth: your softness is beautiful. Your stretch marks are proof of your journey. Your curves are divine. Wrapping yourself in sheets is symbolic—you are allowed to be comfortable, sensual, and celebrated, all at once.

A Bold Statement: ‘Enough is Enough’

There’s a reason why “just sheets” is one of our most highly sought-after boudoir looks. It’s effortlessly sexy, but more importantly—it’s you, unfiltered. The focus isn’t on matching lace or sculpted shapewear. It’s on the way your eyes smolder, how your smile teases the corner of your lips, and how the sheets cling in just the right way.

For plus-size women who’ve ever felt like they’re supposed to cover up, minimize, or hide—this is a bold statement. Enough is enough. You are not too much. You don’t need to be less of anything. You are enough exactly as you are.

A Reminder That You Deserve to Take Up Space

We live in a world that often tries to shrink women—literally and figuratively. But boudoir, especially in sheets, is an unapologetic reminder that you are allowed to take up space. To drape across a bed like the queen you are. To look at your own image and think, “Damn. That’s me.”

There’s healing in that. There’s liberation in that. And there’s joy in finally seeing yourself without the filter of judgment.

The Confidence Boost You Didn’t Know You Needed

Most women leave their boudoir shoot glowing—not because the camera “fixed” them, but because they saw themselves through a new lens. The experience is less about photos and more about transformation. It’s walking in nervous and leaving empowered.

And when you see those images? You realize that you’ve been beautiful all along. That your softness is sensual. That your laughter is sexy. That your body, in all its glory, is worthy of being seen.

Whether you’re celebrating a milestone, healing after heartbreak, or simply tired of waiting for the “perfect” moment—do the damn shoot. Wrap yourself in those sheets, let the camera capture your fire, and reclaim the narrative about what it means to be beautiful.

You don’t need permission.
You don’t need to lose weight.
You don’t need to be anyone else.

You just need you—exactly as you are.

So go ahead. Put “boudoir shoot in sheets” on your self-love list.

Because your story, your beauty, and your strength deserve to be captured — and you, babe, are worth it!

Contact your Phoenix Boudoir Photographer located in Scottsdale, Arizona here to learn more about how to make this happen for you. Then, get on our schedule for your very own boudoir shoot. Want to add this look to your boudoir photoshoot?

Just click between the sheets at booking!

What a White Sheet Boudoir Photoshoot Is and Why You Should Absolutely Do One! | Best Boudoir Photographer in Scottsdale, Phoenix, Gilbert, Arizona

What a White Sheet Boudoir Photoshoot Is and Why You Should Absolutely Do One!

If you’ve ever considered a boudoir session but felt unsure about what to wear or how revealing it should be, the white sheet shoot offers a beautiful, minimalist alternative that focuses on you—honoring your curves, finding your confidence, and taking one more step toward self love.

Here’s everything you need to know about this stunning style of shoot: what it is, why it’s worth doing, and how to prepare for an unforgettable experience that will ultimately help you fall back in love — with yourself.

White Sheet Session at Natural Light Boudoir Studio in Old Town Scottsdale, AZ

What Is a White Sheet Boudoir Photoshoot?

A white sheet boudoir photoshoot is exactly what it sounds like: a sensual, artful photography session where the subject (that’s you!) is draped in soft, flowing white sheets—often with little to no other clothing. Think of it as modern-day goddess meets classic Hollywood glamour. The simplicity of the white sheet becomes a canvas for showcasing your curves, renewed confidence!

The sheet provides just enough coverage to maintain mystery, yet allows freedom to be playful, sultry, or sensual. The results are often soft, dreamy, and intensely powerful.

Why You Should Do One

1. It's Empowering

There’s something deeply transformative about seeing yourself captured in a way that highlights your strength, vulnerability, and sensuality all at once. A white sheet shoot strips things down—literally and metaphorically—so the focus is purely on you.

2. It’s Timeless and Versatile

Unlike other themed shoots that might date over time, white sheet sessions are classically styled and will remain timeless. They’re perfect for gifting to a partner—or just keeping for yourself as a celebration of who you are, who you’re becoming, and how you show love to yourself.

3. It’s Great for All Body Types

Whether you’re curvy, petite, athletic, or anything in between, white sheets can be styled in endless ways to flatter your unique body type. As your boudoir photographer I will guide you through poses and strategically position the sheet to highlight your favorite features and help you feel at ease. How little or how much you want to reveal with the sheets is entirely up to you!

4. It Requires Little to No Wardrobe Planning

No stressing over what lingerie to buy or whether it fits right. With a white sheet shoot, less is truly more.

What to Wear or Bring to a White Sheet Boudoir Shoot

• Loose fitting clothing for getting your hair and make up done.

  Wear this to the studio to avoid tight clothing lines on your skin.

• Nude colored underwear.

  A nude thong or seamless panties are great for coverage that won’t distract from the sheet's clean look.

• Optional lingerie

  If you'd like to add variety, bring one simple bra and panty set as a warm-up look before transitioning to just sheets.

White Sheet Boudoir Photos at Bella Jade Boudoir in Old Town Scottsdale, AZ

Doing a boudoir shoot—especially something as intimate and natural as a white sheet session—requires courage. It’s not just about sexy photos; it’s about showing up as you are and celebrating it unapologetically.

Whether you’re marking a milestone, reclaiming your confidence, or simply trying something bold and beautiful, a white sheet boudoir shoot is a gift to yourself that will last a lifetime.

Are you ready to uncover your confidence and fall back in love with yourself?

Miss A. recommends Phoenix Boudoir Photographer, Bella Jade Boudoir | Best Boudoir Photography in Scottsdale, Phoenix, Gilbert Arizona

Boudoir still on your mind? Have you been putting off booking your very own boudoir session? Is this something you want to do for yourself or your partner? Doing a boudoir photoshoot is a great way to express the love and intimacy with your partner, while also helping you to realize your beauty and boost your confidence.

“I had so much fun. We were laughing the entire time. Highly recommend.”

— Miss A.

For our recent client, Miss A., doing a boudoir session was the best gift for her and her husband’s anniversary, but also would become an opportunity to restore her self-esteem and embrace what it feels like to feel truly sexy in her own skin. After her boudoir photoshoot at our boudoir photography studio in Scottsdale, Arizona, she shared what the experience was like in her own words.

Why did you decide to do a boudoir session?

I wanted to do it for my husband as an anniversary gift and feel sexy!!

Why did you choose Scottsale Boudoir Photographer, Bella Jade Boudoir for your boudoir experience?

I had been following her work for years and have always wanted to book with her. Her work is amazing.

Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?

I do not consider myself a confident person.This experience did change the way I view myself.

Did you have any fears going into your boudoir photoshoot? Were you able to overcome them?

Yes I was scared I would smile too much and not look sexy.

Is there anything you wish you had done differently?

No, it was an amazing experience. I loved it

Definitely had fears as being heavier. She made me feel so confident and comfortable during the experience and just wish I would have done it sooner!!

What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?

I was extremely comfortable in little to no clothes while laughing the entire time.

Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photoshoot?

Just do it you won’t regret it.

Would you recommend Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?

Yes a thousand times yes.

Have you been putting off booking your very own boudoir photography session?

Ready to reclaim your confidence? Contact your Arizona Boudoir Photographer today to learn more about our boudoir photography sessions and packages, then get on our schedule for one of the most empowering experiences you’ll ever have!

Wife, Mom, and Caregiver Shares Her Boudoir Experience | Best Boudoir Photographer in Phoenix, Scottsdale, Gilbert Arizona

Phoenix Boudoir Photographer in Scottsdale Arizona, Bella Jade Boudoir

Are you considering a boudoir session for yourself, as a gift, or both?

Taking this step can take courage, especially if it’s outside your comfort zone. Fortunately, our boudoir clients at Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale often share their experiences. They understand the mix of nerves and excitement as they enter the studio for their special day! Ultimately, they realize that a boudoir shoot is a significant step toward self-love, helping women see their beauty and power at any shape or size. It’s a moment to cherish and remember the feeling of confidence in your own skin. A boudoir shoot can be one of the most empowering experiences in your life, resulting in more confidence and recognizing that doing something for yourself is necessary, not selfish. This was true for one client who, although hesitant to share her private photos online, wanted to inspire others deserving of this experience. In this anonymous boudoir session interview, she speaks about her journey toward boudoir photography, including what inspired her to book the session with us, her experience, and how it felt to prioritize self-care and celebrate herself in such an empowering way!

Why did you decide to do a boudoir session?

Wanted to do this for MYSELF and feel sexy!!

Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale Arizona for your boudoir experience?

loved all her pictures and sets. You can tell looking at the photos everyone, it’s going to be a fun and empowering experience!

Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?

I have been on the heavier side all my life. However, I have recently lost 55 pounds (and still counting!) and knew I just needed to do the pictures now. The photos came out beautiful, and I am so happy and proud that I DID IT!!

Did you have any fears going into your boudoir photoshoot? Were you able to overcome them? Is there anything you wish you had done differently?

Definitely had fears as being heavier. She made me feel so confident and comfortable during the experience and just wish I would have done it sooner!!

What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?

Feeling pampered and empowered during the shoot! As a mom/wife/caregiver to my mom, we give everyone else everything we have and this was for ME!

Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photoshoot?

Just DO IT!!!

Would you recommend Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?

Absolutely!!!

Considering a boudoir shoot for yourself?

Contact your Phoenix Boudoir Photographer today to learn more about our boudoir photography sessions and packages, then get on our schedule for your very own boudoir shoot!

Doing A Boudoir Session Over 70 Client Shares In Her Own Words | Best Boudoir Photographer in near Phoenix, Arizona

Phoenix Boudoir Photographer in Scottsdale Arizona, Bella Jade Boudoir

Whether you’re in your twenties, thirties, 40, 50, 60, or over 70, deciding to do a boudoir session will be exciting! But it also may be a bit nerve wracking. At Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale, we understand that it takes courage to book a boudoir session. And, you may be searching for just the right boudoir photographer to help ease your nerves and get more comfortable about doing a shoot like this. If you are, then I am so glad you are here because one of our incredibly inspiring and beautiful clients has something to share with you!

She says…

At my age, (about to turn 74), I am, finally, a confident person. So this experience didn't change how I see myself. Rather, it gave me "permission" to be who I really am; meaning to let loose and enjoy it!

Regardless of age, shape, or size, our clients often find inspiration and reassurance from hearing about the experiences of other women who have taken this bold step. For that, we cherish the opportunity to share any our clients' stories and are grateful for the trust they place in us. I truly can’t thank her enough for being a voice for those, especially those over 60, who’ve taken the leap and done a boudoir session with us!

Keep reading to hear the rest of her Anonymous Boudoir Interview, as she shares her reason for doing this, why she chose us, and what doing a boudoir session with Bella Jade Boudoir was like! In Her Own Words!

In Her Own Words:

Disclaimer: You may notice no images accompanying this boudoir interview. That’s on purpose. Bella Jade Boudoir only shares client-approved images! This gives our clients, like you, the option for their boudoir photos to remain private. We are proud to leave that choice to them. When you book a shoot with us, whether your photos are posted or kept private will be entirely up to you!

Why did you decide to do a boudoir session?

Giving my boyfriend a very special gift for his birthday - - one he can keep forever.

Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale Arizona for your boudoir experience?

First, Christina's website is very informative, meaning it describes the experience in great detail, so I had some idea what to expect. 2nd, I really liked that my makeup and hair were included as part of the basic shoot fee. 3rd, I appreciated that Christina also built in a PRE-shoot, Zoom session to review details (i.e. what to wear) and answer my questions. 4th, and perhaps most importantly, I could tell from the above 3 factors and after talking with Christina that she is high class and was willing to work with me regarding a couple of my particular concerns.

Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?

At my age, (about to turn 74), I am, finally, a confident person. So this experience didn't change how I see myself. Rather, it gave me "permission" to be who I really am; meaning to let loose and enjoy it!

Did you have any fears going into your boudoir photoshoot? Were you able to overcome them? Is there anything you wish you had done differently?

My principal fears were that, at my age and given some of my physical issues, (i.e. arthritis), I would have difficulty doing the poses and looking sexy. Both Christina and her assistant worked with me to overcome this and pose me in a way that looked sexy and natural.

What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?

I had fun! I brought my own playlist and joked around about sex, my body, and my physical issues, (i.e. arthritis). I went into this with an attitude that I was going to have fun - - (versus worrying about perfection). I trusted Christina to do the rest as the professional photographer experienced in this work.

Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photoshoot?

Don't allow "the perfect to be the enemy of the good." Go in with an attitude of having fun; enjoy the experience. Do your preparation, (i.e. pick your few best outfits, make your playlist, assemble your stuff at least the day before), and then have fun! Trust in Christina to do her job and get you to look your best. She knows what she is doing!

Would you recommend Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?

Absolutely - - without any reservations!

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My hope is that testimonials like these can ease your nerves and remind you that you’re worth it and we’ve got you! You’ve found your boudoir photographer! Now, don't let nerves hold you back from the boudoir session you've always dreamed of!

Are you ready to take the next step towards your very own boudoir session?

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Phoenix Boudoir Photographer Reveals 10 Outfit Ideas that Can Hide Your Tummy In Boudoir Pictures

For most women looking to do a boudoir shoot for the first time, choosing what to wear for your boudoir pictures can initially seem daunting. But, it doesn’t need to be intimidating or stressful at all. In fact, choosing the right outfits for a boudoir session can be a lot of fun - even if there are parts of your body you’re not particularly beaming with confidence over!

Honestly, having a few body insecurities is normal. We have plenty of ideas to make getting your boudoir pictures more comfortable, even if you have them. So you can rest assured that if you book a boudoir shoot in Scottsdale with Bella Jade Boudoir, your boudoir photographer will personally assist you in choosing outfits that work best for you, your body type, and your comfort level. This is all part of our commitment to ensure you have the best boudoir experience possible, and walk away feeling incredible with photos you love the way you look in!

In particular, the most common thing we hear from our boudoir clients is that they want to hide their tummy in their photos — it’s by far one of the most common areas of self-consciousness for a lot of our clients. Since we hear it so often I decided to reveal a few outfit ideas that do a great job of downplaying the one thing you may be feeling most self-conscious of — your midsection.

#1 All Black Teddy
#2 Plain White Tank Top
#3 Cozy Sweater
#4 Jersey
#5 His Shirt
#6 Robe
#7 Garter Belt
#8 Body Suit
#9 High Waisted Panties
#10 Nothing But Sheets

Remember that what you choose to wear, and how much skin you want to reveal is entirely up to you! At Bella Jade Boudoir we believe the right outfit for your boudoir session can be defined as anything that makes you feel beautiful, helps you step out of your shell, and inspires confidence!

Excited to begin planning your boudoir photos with us in Scottsdale, Arizona?

Anonymous Boudoir Client Shares In Her Own Words What Her Boudoir Experience Was Like | Best Boudoir Photographer in Phoenix, Scottsdale, Gilbert Arizona

Phoenix Boudoir Photographer in Scottsdale Arizona, Bella Jade Boudoir

At Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale, Arizona we know that doing a boudoir session is a big decision! While most of our clients decide to do this for themselves and have walked away feeling more confident, we recognize that it takes courage to do something this brave! It’s an investment in yourself that challenges you to step outside of your comfort zone and lean into vulnerability. That comes with feeling a little nervous at first.

Our clients have shared that hearing from other women what doing this was like has helped them believe in their own journey and inspired them to try a boudoir shoot for themselves! For that, we love being able to share what our clients are saying and are ALWAYS so grateful to be given that opportunity. My hope is that these boudoir client interviews can help ease your nerves and remind you that everyone gets nervous sometimes. Don’t let nerves get in the way of doing the boudoir session you’ve always wanted!

In this anonymous boudoir session interview, our amazing client shares why she wanted to book a boudoir session, overcoming her fears and gives advice to anyone considering their own boudoir session.

P.S. You may notice no images accompanying this boudoir session interview. Our clients always have the option to have their boudoir photos remain private and it actually happens a lot. If this is you, know that you do NOT have to share your images publicly when you do a session with Bella Jade. The only photos we ever share online or on social media are client-approved images!

Why did you decide to do a boudoir session?

For the memories — I want to be able to look back and see how beautiful I once was; this is something I've wanted to do for a few years and finally got to do it!

Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale Arizona for your boudoir experience?

Great reviews online and the weekend availability!

Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?

Definitely a work in progress! Yes! I don't like having my picture taken nor do I like to look at myself in pictures but this experience surprised me and I loved the way they turned out.

Did you have any fears going into your boudoir photoshoot? Were you able to overcome them? Is there anything you wish you had done differently?

Yes — I haven't done a photo shoot in a very long time, and this was my first with few (if any!) 'clothes' on. I was nervous at first, but once it got going, I forgot to be nervous and tried to have fun. It helped that direction was provided.

What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?

Seeing the photos! modeling is hard work and it was great to see the final product

Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photoshoot?

Don't overthink it and just have fun!

Would you recommend Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?

Yes!

The 'All Bodies Are Boudoir Bodies' Approach To Boudoir | Bella Jade Boudoir Photography in Phoenix, Scottsdale, Gilbert, Arizona

The word boudoir pronounced buˈdwɑ (unless you’re me then it’s just boo-dwar) is an old-fashioned term used to refer to “a woman's bedroom or dressing room”. It originates from the French word boudoir which means “to sulk”. Naturally, boudoir photography typically takes place in a bedroom setting showcasing a woman posing suggestively wearing lingerie garments or similar.

Although previously a male-dominated industry featuring photos of models and imagery centered around the female form as sexually suggestive art, I’ve watched boudoir photography evolve into something I am very passionate about — empowering women.

All Bodies Are Boudoir Bodies | Bella Jade Boudoir Photography in Phoenix, Scottsdale, Gilbert, Arizona

You will find that a lot of photographers’ portfolios are primarily of models. And yes, you will find photographers out there who use filters and body morphing apps to sculpt images that prioritize perfection.

I can tell you that is not us.

As a female boudoir photographer, I aim to help women fall back in love with themselves. And, my boudoir photography studio has become known for being a creative private space where women can feel safe and comfortable getting boudoir photos taken.

It’s a place for everyday women aspiring to feel more confident in their own skin. A place where they can step out of their comfort zone, and change how they see themselves! For that, at Bella Jade Boudoir, getting boudoir photos is less about the male gaze or having the perfect body and more about how a woman feels in her own skin.

My initial approach to boudoir and for the last 8+ years has been to have a lot of fun, encourage self-love, enhance your beauty, honor your curves, and capture images that memorialize a moment when you felt celebrated, confident, and sexy!

If your goal is to boost your self-esteem do your research and find a boudoir photographer that is the right fit for you. who encourages self-care, and believes in things like body positivity or body neutrality. And, select someone who makes you feel seen and heard. Even if that happens to not be me, I promise that choosing a photographer who aligns with your values, understands why you’re doing this, and genuinely wants you to feel comfortable about being yourself, can positively impact how you feel about the experience and your final photos!

At Bella Jade Boudoir we do not expect our boudoir clients to lose weight, get an extreme tan, or force you into garments not meant for you. And, while you’ll get to have your hair and makeup done professionally our artists specialize in natural glam hair and makeup looks that enhance your natural beauty and boost your self-esteem. Plus, you’ll never see any over-editing on my end. My approach to editing is to create finished art-worthy photos through expert techniques like color and lighting enhancements, skin softening and removing unexpected blemishes like breakouts, and bruises.

Instead, we focus on celebrating women of all shapes and sizes and showing you just how beautiful you already are. Our thoughts: You do not need to transform into someone else to feel more confident in your own skin. Regardless of your imperfections, or so-called flaws, you too deserve to feel loved, sexy, and empowered. Above all, we know that your photos should feel like you, and morphing you into some unrealistic representation of beauty will never be as powerful as capturing photos where you genuinely look and feel your most confident. Truly, at Bella Jade Boudoir, we believe you are already beautiful and want nothing more than to highlight everything you already are so that you can see that too!

When you do a boudoir shoot at our Scottdale boudoir photography studio, it doesn’t matter how nervous you are, if you’re a little self-conscious, or if you have any insecurities about your current body, I can confidently say that you’ll be supported and celebrated by our all-female team!

We will help you with how to prepare, and what to wear, pamper you with hair and make-up, mimosas, have a few laughs, and coach you through posing from head to toe! Making a boudoir shoot with us one of the most memorable and empowering experiences you’ll ever have. One for the books that boosts your self-esteem and inspires you to love yourself unconditionally!

And so, if you take anything away from this let it be this: You don’t need to become someone else to get great boudoir photos. Plus, if you’re gifting your photos to someone special, my guess is that they too, want to see YOU in these photos and not some stranger they don’t recognize either. So be true to yourself, choose a photographer that gets you, and take this opportunity to practice self-love, re-claim your confidence, and recognize how gorgeous you actually are!

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Not necessarily a lingerie person? Choosing what to wear for your boudoir photos is not limited to traditional lingerie. What you wear for your boudoir session ultimately is entirely up to you. Experiment with alternative boudoir looks and choose something that makes you feel confident and beautiful. If you’re looking for boudoir outfits that aren’t lingerie consider this white tank top look with a more casual or sporty panty. Popular brands we love that carry this type of panty include Victoria’s Secret, Lounge, ALO, and Calvin Klein.

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Miss K’s Boudoir Photoshoot In Her Own Words

Doing a boudoir session at Bella Jade Boudoir is a unique experience that celebrates women of all body types. No doubt stepping into the boudoir studio, being pampered with hair and make-up, hanging with us girls, laughing, posing, having fun, and feeling sexy will be a refreshingly good time and a huge confidence boost! While many women initially consider doing a boudoir shoot as a way to gift something special to their fiance or significant other — women truly want to do this for themselves, and I’ll bet you do too! No matter what shape or size you may be doing something this brave and realizing your beauty at any size will empower you to love yourself unconditionally and feel more confident in your own skin. That’s a feeling you will get to take with you long after the session has ended.

As a bride to be doing a boudoir shoot with us, Miss K. says…

“What a fantastic experience! Christina made the process so easy and comfortable. We started with a get-to-know-you call a few weeks prior, which was great to ask questions and feel prepared for what was coming. Once I got to the studio, Christina made me feel comfortable, confident, and beautiful. Initially nervous, I started laughing almost immediately and had the best time. She coached me through each step of the process and let me bring my own spin to things. Christina showed me a few previews of certain shots, and I am SO excited about the final result. You can feel her passion for women, making each person feel confident and bringing out their best selves. DEFINITELY will keep coming back!! And if you're on the fence or feel like you can after you lose weight or whatever -- BOOK IT!! You won't regret it”

After her session and seeing her final images we interviewed Miss K. to learn more about what it was like for her finally getting to do something like this. Here is how she describes doing a boudoir session at Bella Jade Boudoir:

What inspired you to pursue a boudoir photo shoot?

I wanted to build some confidence, but I’m also getting married and wanted a surprise for my soon-to-be husband.

Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale for your boudoir experience?

I just loved Christina’s work and her whole vibe! Her online presence is very positive and empowering. And her work is sexy and fun without being over the top.

Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?

I think of my self as a mostly confident person with some things I can definitely work on. The experience helped me to gain some confidence in my body and my ability to look sexy at any size.

Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them? Anything you wish you would have done differently?

I was nervous that I was just going to look like a whale in anything that wasn’t something full coverage. But with help from Christina beforehand in outfit selection as well as just her being a rockstar and finding the right positions for me, I LOVED the results. I legit never thought I could look so hot!!

What was your favorite part about your boudoir experience?

Hanging with Christina and Leah! They are so much fun and made me feel so comfortable, confident, and beautiful. They were also amazing about finding angles and looks that worked for ME not just putting everything into a cookie cutter and dealing with the results.

Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photoshoot?

BOOK THE SHOOT!!! You aren’t too old, fat, saggy, or whatever… your body is beautiful and you should celebrate the stage you’re in!! This is also such a fun, sexy surprise for someone! I can NOT wait to give my fiancé the results!!

And, Christina is there to walk you through EACH step of the process and makes sure you feel comfortable and heard.

Would you recommend The Bella Jade Collection, Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?

Yes! Yes! Yes!! I love Christina and want to be her friend, in real life. I would 100% feel confident recommending the experience!!

Anything else you’d like to share?

Thank you Christina (and Leah) for letting me be myself, not making me feel an ounce of shame. And for just being my friends for our time together!! You both are AMAZING at what you do and are some of the nicest people I’ve ever met. Thank you! Thank you!

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Feel Better About Getting Boudoir Photos | Best Phoenix Boudoir Photographer located in Old Town Scottsdale Arizona

Are you looking for ways to prepare for a boudoir photoshoot and feel better about getting your boudoir photos taken? As a Phoenix Boudoir Photographer for over 8 years, I can assure you that confidence is a product of boudoir, not a pre-requisite. But there are a few things you can do to ease your mind and feel better before walking into your boudoir shoot. It just may not be what you're thinking…

How to Feel better About Getting Boudoir Photos Taken:

1. Know your why and be true to yourself.

   Why do you want to do something like this? This matters just as much as the final photos! Is it a gift for someone else? A gift to yourself? A celebration of a milestone? An act of self-love? To help you change the way you see yourself? A self-esteem boost? Start by thinking about how you want to be photographed and whether or not that vision aligns with your why. It may help to create a dream board of photos that inspire you, or outfit ideas that you think you’d feel good in! If you're unsure about what style you like best or what to wear, do not be afraid to ask for advice (whether it’s from your photographer or previous clients it will help tremendously!). We also offer plenty of resources that can help you plan for your session like The Boudoir Personality Quiz and our Boudoir Photoshoot Planner. Take advantage of them! As you begin planning for your boudoir shoot remember: the confidence gained from a boudoir session comes from realizing your own beauty, not from being someone entirely other than yourself. Embrace who you are and work with your strengths choosing things that make you feel your best, challenge you, and empower you.

2. Choose a boudoir photographer that is right for you!
   

When deciding on your photographer, check out their website, reviews, and recent work. Does it inspire you? Does it get you excited for what your own boudoir shoot could be like? Do you feel they can and have addressed your questions or concerns? Do your research before scheduling your session because finding the right photographer (or the wrong one) can greatly impact the overall experience and how you see yourself after viewing your photos. Having the support of your photographer/team and knowing that you’re in good hands ultimately will give you more confidence in doing a boudoir shoot. For that, make sure your photographer is someone you can connect with, trust to deliver amazing results, open to answering all of your questions, and make you feel seen and heard.

3. Voice your insecurities and inhibitions.

I realize that this one seems a little counterintuitive. It’s not. Be an advocate for yourself. At the end of the day you know yourself better than anyone. If there's something about this that makes you incredibly nervous, say it. Don’t be afraid to voice your insecurities and inhibitions, especially, when it comes to privacy.

Don’t want your private photos on social media? Not sure how to pose? Worried about showing that one thing about your body you are most self-conscious of? Trust me, the photographer who cares about you wants to know and they want to help!

If you book a shoot with us here at Bella Jade you’ll get a one-on-one consultation with the photographer before your session date. This is your time, babe. I can understand that bringing up insecurities sounds scary. However, it’s a great opportunity to work through them as a team, get in front of it, and create a plan that will ultimately help you feel better! Come the day of your shoot, you’ll feel more comfortable, and get to focus on the good stuff — like being yourself, feeling sexy, and having fun!

Of course, there are many more tips to feeling better about having boudoir photos done. If you want to learn more or have any questions reach out to Bella Jade Boudoir here.

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Why should I do a boudoir shoot?

There are many reasons women choose to do a boudoir photoshoot and we share plenty here if you’re curious. Above all, a boudoir photoshoot is a great way to give back to yourself, boost your confidence, practice self love, and celebrate being a woman! While most of our boudoir clients ultimately choose to do a boudoir photo shoot for themselves, it also makes an unforgettable gift!

No doubt — your significant other will not be disappointed & gifting your boudoir photos will be a win-win!

You get to experience what its like to feel sexy, confident, and empowered while walking away with photos you can look back on and feel inspired all over again every time you look back on them! Choosing to share them with that special someone is just one more reason to do something like this! By creating something like a boudoir album, your significant other gets an unexpected gift that undeniably stands out among any other gift he’s ever gotten before — the gift of you! Just imagine seeing his jaw hit the floor when he unwraps a stunning album jam packed with photos of you that showcase your confidence and unique beauty! Re-ignite the passion you have for one another and remind him that he got a good one when he chose you!

When should I book my boudoir session?

Even if you do not plan on gifting your boudoir photos, know that October through February is our busiest time of year here at Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale. We do everything from bridal boudoir sessions, sultry and moody spooky time shoots, Christmas, New Year’s, and Valentine’s Day gifts for yourself or for him, Galentines BFF boudoir sessions, and couples boudoir. So yes, our schedule fills up fast this time of year!

For that, it’s never too early to start planning your very own boudoir session! Booking your photoshoot now not only ensures you’ll get a spot on our calendar, and hopefully your desired date! But, it also ensures time for you to plan for your session, put together outfits, brainstorm ideas if you're incorporating Holiday or seasonal themes, and guarantees a spot for a one-on-one styling and wardrobe consultation with your Phoenix Boudoir Photographer! Not to mention (and this is a big one) allows for enough turn around time to meet Holiday deadlines!

Our deadline for albums ready by Christmas is December 8th!
Our deadline for albums ready by Valentines Day is January 28th!

Regardless, if doing a boudoir session is for yourself or your special someone now is the time to begin planning Your Holiday boudoir session!

Bella Jade Boudoir specializes in boudoir photography serving the Phoenix and Scottsdale area

Want to learn more about our boudoir photography sessions, packages, and products? Contact your Phoenix Boudoir Photographer here. Ready to get started? Get on our schedule today!

Are Boudoir Photo Shoots Awkward? | Phoenix Boudoir Photographer located in Old Town Scottsdale, Arizona

Many women have fears and concerns when deciding to do a boudoir photoshoot. If you’re worried having your boudoir photos taken will be awkward I want to assure you — doing a boudoir shoot is not awkward. That’s just not true. With the right fit photographer, and a private, safe, and positive environment, doing a boudoir session is a lot of fun! Moreover, it will be an empowering and liberating experience you won’t regret!

After my sessions, most women tell me they can’t believe they took so long to book it, and that every woman should get a chance to experience this at least once in their lifetime. Sometimes those clients even come back! Once they know what to expect, they have an easier time letting their guard down and get to experience it all over again in a new way!

All that being said, unfortunately, the thought of getting boudoir photos being awkward can result in some women never getting to experience this at all. Ultimately, missing out on all of the benefits a boudoir session!

Which is the reason I wanted to write this. If you’re holding off on booking a boudoir session, or are close to throwing in the towel all together consider that doing a shoot like this isn’t as awkward as you might think. In fact, it feels more like a self-care day hanging with your best girl friends! And I mean that. Listen, choosing to do something like this for yourself takes courage. For most women it’s an investment, a special gift for their significant other that is unmatched by any other gift they could imagine, but it’s also an opportunity to lay your insecurities to rest and change the way you see yourself. It asks you to challenge yourself often stepping way out of your comfort zone for something you’ve never done before. And, for obvious reasons, it calls for you to be honest with yourself, look past your flaws, and put your trust in others, and that can feel vulnerable!

For that, it’s not unusual for our clients to open up to us with some pretty intimate details about their lives. I think that comes naturally when you feel fully supported by other women who really want to see you shine! And I’m here for it. Because stripping down to lingerie, and trusting me to capture the most beautiful portraits of themselves they’ve ever seen is kind of a big deal! I want to be the person for you that supports you, that makes you feel welcome, that guides you through the entire process, and helps you fall back in love with yourself!

If you could stand in behind the scenes of one of my boudoir sessions you’d see that while posing in front of the camera almost bare may be awkward at first it blossoms into something that goes far beyond posing and pictures. The nerves will fade and you’ll begin to let loose, have fun, and embrace the process!

By the end of the session, I’m seriously so proud of my clients for going through with booking their boudoir session. I can not make this up. The women I see in my studio are some of the most beautiful and brave women I’ll ever meet. Their authenticity, their willingness to take it all in, do something they’ve never done before, look past their flaws, push through their insecurities, and learn to love themselves more … it all truly blows me away!

It’s not awkward. It’s liberating. It’’s fun, and it’s empowering! If you’ve been putting off booking your very own boudoir session I urge you to make today the day you go for it! This will be one of the most memorable, confidence-boosting, experiences you’ll ever have.

Plus, if you’re thinking of gifting your images to a significant other trust me they will be far from disappointed! Your special someone is probably secretly wishing you’d do one right now. It’s time for you to see what they see, and to take a chance on yourself! See for yourself how much fun getting boudoir photos taken is and walk away from this with photos as stunning finished artwork that will inspire confidence for years to come!

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At Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale, Arizona we specialize in empowering boudoir photography for everyday women who want to see themselves in a new light and learn to love themselves unconditionally. If that’s you, I hope you’ll find a way to look beyond the fears and finally book the boudoir shoot you’ve been wanting! Contact your Scottsdale Boudoir Photographer here to learn how to get started planning your very own boudoir session!

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Explore which sets/looks best suit your boudoir style!

The Bella Jade Collection specializes in Phoenix boudoir photography located in Scottsdale, Arizona. At our boudoir photography studio we offer two contrasting looks to choose from. From light and bright to rich and moody boudoir photos: explore which experiences best suit your boudoir style with this quick 10 question Boudoir Style Quiz. Plus, now you can opt to have both looks all in one session! Take the quiz to find out which sets and looks best suit your boudoir style!

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