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Miss M Shares her Bella Jade Boudoir Photography Experience | Best Phoenix Boudoir Photographer in Old Town Scottsdale, AZ
Miss M. had been in our VIP group for over a year. She was recommended by someone who's done two shoots with us. She's wanted to do a shoot like this for a while and needed to build up the courage to go for it. Well — She won our Giveaway in February and was met head on by some of her fears. A new season in her life that was filled with uncertainty but unapologetic love for herself and her body. She embraced it. As it provided her relief that sometimes doing the best we can do really is enough. Her session and time with us was so beautiful as is she.
Some might say that she was lucky to win our giveaway but reality is we are lucky to have HER.
Thanks Miss M. for trusting us as your Phoenix boudoir photographer and allowing us to share this experience with you!
Here is what her boudoir shoot was like from her point of view.
Miss M. had been in our VIP group for over a year. She was recommended by someone who's done two shoots with us. She's wanted to do a shoot like this for a while and needed to build up the courage to go for it. Well —
Comfy Sweater Boudoir Photo by Bella Jade Boudoir Studio in Old Town Scottsdale Arizona.
She won our Giveaway in February and was met head on by some of her fears. A new season in her life that was filled with uncertainty but unapologetic love for herself and her body. She embraced it. As it provided her relief that sometimes doing the best we can do really is enough. Her session and time with us was so beautiful as is she.
Some might say that she was lucky to win our giveaway but reality is we are lucky to have HER.
Thanks Miss M. for trusting us as your Phoenix boudoir photographer and allowing us to share this experience with you!
Miss M. says
“This experience has changed the way I see myself in so many ways. I fell in love with myself. I gave myself some grace. ”
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
I won a contest for the photoshoot.
I had always wanted to do this, but never thought I was “fit” enough.
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your Arizona boudoir experience?
Then, I was introduced to the Facebook group and was inspired by all the beautiful photos of “all” the women of all shapes. ♥️
Boudoir Photography by Bella Jade Boudoir located in Scottsdale, Arizona.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
This experience has changed the way I see myself in so many ways. I fell in love with myself. I gave myself some grace.
Cozy Sweater Natural Light Boudoir Photo by The Bella Jade Collection located in Scottsdale, AZ.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
I started to second guess myself in the car. I had just gotten news about what was going on with my body and I was asking myself “What am I doing here, I’m a 52 year old woman, I just found out I am in full bloom in menopause, and I questioned what am I doing here?”
I got out of the car and thought, “I’m here, let’s just do this, I don’t have to share the photos if I don’t like them.”
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
Once I walked in and was greeted by Christina and Heidi, I just bursted out what I had just found out and experienced in the car. I started to tear up. They greeted me with open arms and said they were so excited that I showed up.
During the shoot we had a lot of laughs and for once during this building up to doing the shoot, I felt, this is where I am meant to be at this moment in my life.
I felt good about myself as they guided me through the experience.
The reveal is a whole other story. Haha
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Just do it! You may consider, wonder, or question about it, but no matter what, jump all in and take it all in! It will be worth it, it will be just the beginning of you loving “yourself” more than you could ever imagine.
Would you recommend The Bella Jade Collection Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?
Yes! I would and I already have! As soon as I walked out the door and got into my car after the shoot. Best experience I have ever had!
Considering booking your very own boudoir photography session in Phoenix, Scottsdale, Arizona and want to learn more? Check out our boudoir studios. Call 602-380-8112 or leave us a note here.
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"Instead of Judgment They Gave Me Celebration" | Miss B. Shares her Scottsdale Boudoir Photography Experience
So many woman find themselves here — not sure if they’ll ever be able to accept their new bodies after children, and then one day you wake up, realize that you are 40, and decide enough is enough.
Refuse to keep hiding your body — uncage yourself, let yourself be seen, and realize your beauty. Self love should be unconditional. It’s time to say I WANT TO LOVE MYSELF AGAIN, then do it!
That’s exactly what Miss B. did the moment she stepped into our boudoir studio and I am so glad she did! Because, this woman is beautiful inside and out, deserves to be celebrated, and I couldn’t have been more honored to be trusted as her boudoir photographer.
After her boudoir shoot with us, we interviewed Miss B. as she shared what her boudoir session was like from her perspective. She has graciously allowed us to share her responses in hopes to inspire other women like her to do the shoot and give themselves this gift of renewed confidence.
Baseball Jersey Pose | Boudoir Photos by The Bella Jade Collection taken in The Grey Room | Located in Oldtown Scottsdale, AZ
Miss B. booked a boudoir shoot at Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale to reconnect with herself, and get back to feeling like the sexy confident woman that she was prior to having children.
Miss B. says…
I've always been pretty confident, but after having 2 kids and seeing the signs of aging that the early 40s bring, I've started slowly being more body shy. This experience reminded me that I am more than just a 40 something year old mother. I am a woman, I am beautiful with all my flaws and I am going to hold my head up high and be proud of it all.
And she is not alone. So many woman find themselves here — not sure if they’ll ever be able to accept their new bodies after children, and then one day you wake up, realize that you are 40, and decide enough is enough. It’s never too late to reclaim your confidence!
Refuse to keep hiding your body — uncage yourself, let yourself be seen, and realize your beauty. Self love should be unconditional. It’s time to say I WANT TO LOVE MYSELF AGAIN, then do it!
That’s exactly what Miss B. did the moment she stepped into our boudoir studio and I am so glad she did! Because, this woman is beautiful inside and out, deserves to be celebrated, and I couldn’t have been more honored to be trusted as her boudoir photographer.
After her boudoir shoot with us, we interviewed Miss B. as she shared what her boudoir session was like from her perspective. She has graciously allowed us to share her responses in hopes to inspire other women like her to do the shoot and give themselves this gift of renewed confidence.
Classy and Sexy Boudoir Photo in The Grey Room of woman posing in full lingerie on blue grey tufted bench. Photography by The Bella Jade Collection located in Old Town Scottsdale, AZ.
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
I really wanted to capture this version of myself and celebrate all that is me.
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
I chose Christina because of her vibe. I've seen her video clips on Facebook and Instagram and she seemed so positive and friendly, but sassy. That sassy side captured my attention and I knew there was no one better to go with.
Sassy sitting boudoir pose in The Grey Room. Photography by The Bella Jade Collection located in Old Town Scottsdale, AZ. Hair and Make up by Leah Cayzer Beauty.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
I've always been pretty confident, but after having 2 kids and seeing the signs of aging that the early 40s bring, I've started slowly being more body shy. This experience reminded me that I am more than just a 40 something year old mother.
I am a woman, I am beautiful with all my flaws and I am going to hold my head up high and be proud of it all.
Boudoir posing in red lingerie with Gold mirror. Photography by The Bella Jade Collection located near Phoenix, AZ.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
My biggest fear was feeling uncomfortable and unliked. My experiences with women have always been pretty negative since my late teens and I've always felt like the black sheep in a room full of women. I was worried that I wouldn't connect with Christina, but oh man, she and Leah (the hair and make up artist) blew me away. I literally walked out of my photo shoot wishing they were both my friends in real life.
They both gave me something I haven't really experienced with women in the past. Instead of judgement, they gave me celebration.
I wouldn't change a thing.
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
For me, the best part of the shoot was being celebrated! Second favorite part was getting the chance to be all dolled up and sexy. And the pictures that came as a result of that? Straight FIRE.
Woman posing for boudoir photos in The Grey Room on luxury fur throw. Photo by The Bella Jade Collection in Scottsdale Arizona. Hair and make up by Leah Cayzer Beauty.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Do it! With none or all of the flaws, do it! Whether you’re 20 or 50, do it. Capture this version of you and be proud of the body you have. Show the world what you are made of and let yourself feel like a queen.
Edgy, rich, and moody boudoir photography. Photo taken in The Grey Room by The Bella Jade Collection. Studio located near Phoenix in Old Town Scottsdale, AZ.
Would you recommend this experience to a friend?
Hell yes! I cannot wait for people to ask where I got my photos done so that I can tell them all about Bella Jade. If anyone needs a boudoir girl, Christina is where it's at. I can't wait to do it again!
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Miss K's Boudoir Experience in Scottsdale Arizona | Top Rated Arizona Boudoir Photographer near Phoenix, AZ
Miss K.’s story is one of those dream clients that reminds me why I love boudoir photography so much! She is a woman who knows what she wants, is willing to work for what she deserves, and is making it her mission to finally put herself first and learn to love herself unconditionally!
She came into the studio wanting to see what others saw in her and celebrate everything that she has been working so hard for!
Miss K.’s story is one of those dream clients that reminds me why I love boudoir photography so much! She is a woman who knows what she wants, is willing to work for what she deserves, and is making it her mission to finally put herself first and learn to love herself unconditionally!
She came into the studio wanting to see what others saw in her and celebrate everything that she has been working so hard for!
I think — when you make big positive changes in your life others cant help but notice how much more confident you become.
But, sometimes we still have days where we look in the mirror and continue to ask ourselves if we are enough… if this is actually real, or if we could just do more and be more everything would be better. To that, I say don’t forget to stop and celebrate your victories! And this girl right here did just that. She took a chance on booking a boudoir session with us, mustered up the courage to show up as she is right now, set aside her fears and let the power of vulnerability bring her that much more confidence!
Miss K. is a great example of what it means to be an empowered woman! It’s not being fearless. It’s not perfection. It’s not the absence of insecurities. It’s knowing that all of those things don’t have to stop you from showing up and being yourself.
Here are some of our favorite boudoir photos from Miss K’s Scottsdale boudoir shoot. She also tells first hand what doing a shoot like this was like for her in this boudoir interview.
Thanks Miss K. for trusting Bella Jade Boudoir with your boudoir photos and allowing us to share your story with more women like you!
Miss K says…
“I feared that I wouldn't get anything out of this experience, that I would hate all the pictures when I saw them and that it would be a waste of money. I overcame those fears and am so happy and proud that I did this for myself.”
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
I wanted to see what other people say they see in me. I've been trying to work on being confident and I thought this would really help me with that.
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your Arizona boudoir experience?
I was looking online when Bella Jade came on my feed. I started to research and look into the company more and when I saw the pictures and videos Christina did and posted online, I felt I should reach out and ask the questions I had. She responded quickly and I felt comfortable with her and got a good vibe so I decided to book my session.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress?
No not even close. I am a work in progress all the way.
Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
Omg yes this experience has changed how I see myself. Just watching the video got me emotional and teary eyed seeing that all those pictures were me and that I did look beautiful.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
Yes, I feared that I wouldn't get anything out of this experience, and I would hate all the pictures when I saw them and that it would be a waste of money. Yes, I overcame those fears and am so happy and proud that I did this for myself. It is something I will never forget and would love to do again in the future.
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
The vibe and energy from the ladies. From walking into the studio being so nervous they made me feel so comfortable and we had a great time. The reveal on how I looked with my hair and makeup done after Heidi worked her magic made me so ready for the shoot and I was able to really let go and get all of those great shots.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Do it!!! You will not regret it and Christina will help you throughout the whole process.
Considering booking your very own boudoir photography photo shoot in Phoenix, Scottsdale, Arizona and want to learn more? Check out our boudoir studios. You my also call 602-380-8112 or leave us a note here.
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Miss N's Boudoir Photo Shoot in The New Grey Room! | Best Boudoir Photographer in Scottsdale, Phoenix AZ
All I can say is WOW! What a babe! This girls boudoir shoot in The ***new*** Grey Room was fire!
For a hot second she had me fooled. Going into it she was a little self conscious. She worried that she wouldn’t know how to pose and that she would look awkward in her boudoir photos. But as long as she trusted me, I wasn’t worried. She was going into this for all of the right reasons. She was ready in that its about time what are we waiting for kind of way. She needed this and I knew she was going to nail it!
What I didn’t know was that she was going to be tossing hair, laughing, and feeling herself before the warm up even barely started! And, I’ll take that kind of energy any day!
THAT-A-Girl!
For those of you reading this and wondering how the actual photo shoot works …
Photo taken in The Grey Room by Bella Jade Boudoir in Old Town Scottsdale Arizona.
All I can say is WOW! What a babe! This girls boudoir shoot in The ***new*** Grey Room was fire!
For a hot second she had me fooled. Going into it she was a little self conscious. She worried that she wouldn’t know how to pose and that she would look awkward in her boudoir photos. But as long as she trusted me, I wasn’t worried. She was going into this for all of the right reasons. She was ready in that its about time what are we waiting for kind of way. She needed this and I knew she was going to nail it!
What I didn’t know was that she was going to be tossing hair, laughing, and feeling herself before the warm up even barely started! And, I’ll take that kind of energy any day!
THAT-A-Girl!
For those of you reading this and wondering how the actual photo shoot works …
Miss N. says…
“I am my own worst critic and I wanted to do something to help me be more confident and I have never felt so confident like I did during my photo shoot.”
Toward the beginning of every session we like to do a warm up. Which is basically your boudoir photographer showing you a few tricks and coaching you through a series of tried and trusted poses. After 6+ years photographing women from all walks of life and different comfort levels, we know that keeping it simple in the beginning is this is the best way to get you started! And we tell you exactly what to do down to your finger tips. That’s right — you don’t have to know what you are doing. (you can exhale now… ). And here’s the thing … even if the first couple of photos are a total flop I don’t even care. I’m still not worried and you need not to either.
I realize — that even though this whole boudoir thing is not new to me, for most of our boudoir clients this is ALL new to you — every part of it
The Lingerie
The Studio
The Make Up
The Moving Through Posing while trying to look sexy!
And if you’re feeling anything like Miss N was prior to booking her shoot and having a consultation with us, you are probably stepping way out of your comfort zone and into the unknown. So its OK to be nervous. We get it!
The warm up gives you a chance to get more comfortable being in front of the camera, taking direction, and finding your own flow! Again, we don’t expect you to come in having it all figured out in less than 60 seconds. Eventually the nerves will fade out and you’ll find your own rhythm. You’d be surprised how quickly you can get passed thinking about flaws and fears when you are having fun!
For Miss N it went a little like this: It was like I blinked, looked down at my camera, then BAM there was this super confident, playful, feeling some type of way Bombshell in front of me barely even through the warm up!
We LOVE that! Permission to brag to all of your friends how bad af you are!
After her session she shared with us what it was like from her perspective and I am excited that she has allowed us to now share her story with you.
Remember, at Bella Jade our clients get to choose whether or not their boudoir photos are shared. We will never share your private photos without your consent. And, we are more than ok with that!
Miss N. shares her Boudoir Experience …
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
I came into the new year wanting to love myself more and I needed a confidence boost and I thought what better way than a boudoir shoot! I needed to step out of my comfort zone and this definitely did that for me.
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your Arizona boudoir experience?
To be completely honest? I was thinking about doing a boudoir shoot and Bam! There you were popping up on Instagram!
Photo taken in The Grey Room by Bella Jade Boudoir in Old Town Scottsdale Arizona.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
Work in progress for sure! I am my own worst critic and I wanted to do something to help me be more confident and I have never felt so confident like I did during my photo shoot.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
I am normally a very awkward person so I was worried that would come out in my pictures and it definitely did not. I was amazed at how well Christina captured my natural sexiness and how natural I looked in my photos.
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
Everything from beginning to end… The whole process was amazing I felt completely comfortable in front of both of the make up artist and photographer. They made me feel at home and nothing about it felt weird. Picking out my photos was also fun. I did not feel pressured or rushed.
It was just all-around fun.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Yeah, do it!
Considering booking your very own boudoir photo shoot in Phoenix, Scottsdale, Arizona and want to learn more? Check out our boudoir studios. Call 602-380-8112 or leave us a note here.
Ready to begin planning your very own Scottsdale boudoir photo shoot?
50 and Fabulous! Miss D’s Boudoir Interview | Top Rated Scottsdale Boudoir Photography for Phoenix, Mesa, Gilbert, Scottsdale, area
Miss D, like many women we get the honor of photographing at our Scottsdale boudoir studio had wanted to do a shoot like this for a long time! For her, doing a boudoir photo shoot was something she needed to do for herself. And, even though she was a bit nervous to book the shoot at first — it was something on her bucket list and she was determined to accept the challenge.
I loved that about her. She has that kind of if you want something go get it attitude. From that, she was able to set aside some of her fears and her inner confidence really thrived during her shoot with us!
Miss D, like many women we get the honor of photographing at our Scottsdale boudoir studio had wanted to do a shoot like this for a long time! For her, doing a boudoir photo shoot was something she needed to do for herself. And, even though she was a bit nervous to book the shoot at first — it was something on her bucket list and she was determined to accept the challenge.
I loved that about her. She has that kind of if you want something go get it attitude. From that, she was able to set aside some of her fears and her inner confidence really thrived during her shoot with us!
Honestly, I think that is how most great things happen. You just decide that you are enough, commit, and then make it happen! With the right boudoir photographer, a positive attitude, and a support team like we have at Bella Jade Boudoir, those nerves really do begin to fade and you can start to truly see yourself in a new light.
If you’ve been putting off doing a shoot like this and are a little unsure if you are going to like the finished product, know this — choosing a boudoir photographer that feels right for you is so important. Miss D is just one of many of our clients who would agree!
Once you find one, take the chance, trust the process, and start believing you can do this too. Because you can!
Miss D says…
“The finished product definitely changed the way I see myself.”
Remember, numbers do not define you. You are good enough TODAY and we want to show you just how extraordinarily beautiful you are. You deserve to celebrate and show some love for yourself every now and again!
Miss D shares her take on what it was like for her going into this and how she felt after seeing her final boudoir photos! We also (with her permission) feature some of the beautiful imagery we created together!
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
It has been something I’ve been wanting to do for a long time so I put it on my bucket list and checked it off!
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your Arizona boudoir experience?
Once I decided to take the jump, I did an internet search and when I found Bella Jade, I felt it was a good match.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
I will always be a work in progress but I felt confident enough to choose to go through with this experience.
The finished product definitely changed the way I see myself.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
A little anxious and nervous but that quickly went away once the process began.
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
Everything from start to finish. Hair, makeup, and all the great direction posing!
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Just do it! I promise you won’t have any regrets! I would recommend Bella Jade and Christina to my friends, 100%!
Considering booking your very own boudoir photography session in Phoenix, Scottsdale, Arizona and want to learn more? Check out our boudoir studios. Call 602-380-8112 or leave us a note here.
Ready to begin planning your very own Phoenix boudoir photography session at Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale, Arizona?
Miss D. Shares her Scottsdale Boudoir Photography Experience | Top Rated Arizona Boudoir Photographer in Phoenix, Mesa, Gilbert, Scottsdale
Miss D. came in for her very first boudoir shoot at our Scottsdale boudoir studio barely nervous at all … When planning her boudoir outfits she knew that she wanted to do something that would leave her feeling sexy and glamourous with lingerie and a classy garter belt (hold the stockings — wait until you see these boudoir photos!)
Miss D. came in for her very first boudoir shoot at our Scottsdale boudoir studio barely nervous at all! Believe it or not, at the time she had two 18 month old twins, hustling multiple businesses, was getting married, and planning a move all at the same time! So, I am so glad to see that she was able to carve out some time JUST for herself to enjoy the a day of self care and to celebrate all of her milestones.
When planning her boudoir outfits she knew that she wanted to do something that would leave her feeling sexy and glamourous with lingerie and a classy garter belt (hold the stockings — wait until you see these photos!)
After having her pre photoshoot consultation and seeing ideas on our Instagram she felt inspired and decided it would also be fun to explore her more playful side by bringing in a baseball jersey to wear as well. This is what’s great about this process! Because, seriously they turned out to be some of the sexiest boudoir photos!
And, though Miss D. did not have as many reservations as most do going into their very first boudoir session, she wants other women to know regardless just do it and don’t over think it!
I really think that is good advice. Not just for deciding to book a Scottsdale boudoir photo shoot for yourself but also during planning! Be open minded, keep it simple, and don’t overthink it. The sexiest photos sometimes don’t require a ton of outfit planning at all. PLUS we know how to make almost any outfit look hot and will always guide you towards what’s going to work best for you and in boudoir photos!
Here are some more of Miss D’s boudoir photos that she had so graciously allowed us to share. You can also check out some of her answers to how she felt about her own boudoir experience at Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale, Arizona.
Miss D. says…
“Do it. Don’t think.”
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
Getting married!
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
Great reviews and social media.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
Between both confident and a work in progress — And yes loved seeing the final product!
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
No fears!
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
Christina’s personality.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Do it. Don’t think.
Considering booking your very own boudoir photography session in Phoenix, Scottsdale, Arizona and want to learn more? Check out our boudoir studios. Call 602-380-8112 or leave us a note here.
Ready to begin planning your very own Scottsdale boudoir photography session?
What If I See My Boudoir Photos and Don’t Love Them? | 5 Things You Can Do to Get Out of Your Own Head
What if I see my boudoir photos and don’t love them?
Since so many women have struggled with body image or self worth at some point in their lives I NEVER want to dismiss this question. If you are someone that is currently dealing with negative body image or discouraging thoughts about how you look or might look in your photos, this question is valid.
Not every experience is going to be the same. Honestly, self love is a journey not a destination and we’re all moving through it at a different pace.
One of the most rewarding things about being a boudoir photographer is the opportunity to make a positive impact on how women see themselves. I get to encourage women to feel more comfortable in their own skin, celebrate their bodies, and learn to love themselves unconditionally.
You don’t have to embrace every single flaw…
in order to love yourself more.
Whether these women come into their boudoir photo shoot a little nervous and unsure, or they walk right in feeling confident, ready to stand fully in their body and unleash their sexy — I am honored to be a part of their experience and create something beautiful together.
Not surprisingly though, there is a less spoken part of boudoir and its one that might make boudoir photographers a little bit uncomfortable themselves. But for me, I think it has a place here to be addressed. In fact, you might be asking it for yourself …
What if I see my boudoir photos and don’t love them?
Since so many women have struggled with body image or self worth at some point in their lives I NEVER want to dismiss this question. If you are someone that is currently dealing with negative body image or discouraging thoughts about how you look or might look in your photos, this question is valid.
Not every experience is going to be the same.
Why? Because self love is a journey not a destination and we’re all moving through it at a different pace.
Do I think you are going to come in and hate your boudoir photos? Well, no of course not.
I stand confidently behind my work, our studios approach to boudoir photography, and the belief that boudoir can be truly empowering. I MEAN THAT and want you to know that you are in good hands here at Bella Jade Boudoir.
But I also believe …
that it is equally as important to acknowledge — boudoir is not a one size fits all “happy pill” that is going to instantly undo years of internalized thoughts, or erase every bad thing that you’ve ever said or thought about your body.
What it CAN do is ease the pressure to be perfect before you can be present.
It can give you room to show up, be yourself, and figure out how to feel ok about your body regardless of any insecurities, imperfections, or limiting beliefs.
It creates a safe space for you to express yourself, and furthermore explore the relationship you have with body.
A space that is cared for by other women who want nothing more than to see you recognize your beauty and feel more confident in your own skin!
If there is anything that I want you to take away from this its that …
You don’t have to embrace every single flaw in order to love yourself more.
Accept that they are there,
and realize that you are incredibly powerful, beautiful,
& equally deserving of self love with or without them.
If you happen to be one of those women & are asking yourself …
“What If I hate my photos”
here are Here are 5 things you can do (leading up to your shoot/Viewing) to help Get Out of Your Own Head:
Challenge yourself to focus on the GOOD.
Like, your courage to try something new. Your ability to stand fully in your truth despite your fears. (example given — the mere fact that you care enough about yourself to have clicked on this blog, booked the shoot, hired the therapist, wrote the journal, picked up the book, whatever it is etc.)
Recognize that you are human.
You will never be completely void of your inner critic. Hear her, but don’t let her paralyze you. your value is not determined by your weakest thought.Be mindful of how you internalize what other people think/say of you.
When you receive criticism from others, take the time to evaluate whether it is constructive or destructive and file it accordingly! Hold space only for things that fuel you, help you grow, and serve you and others in positive ways.
Release yourself from unrealistic expectations.
Whether it be your weight, your confidence level before or after your shoot, the way you fit or don’t fit into the latest beauty trends/ideals … Remember, These things are constantly evolving and so are you! Set realistic goals, and be flexible in your approach. Again, we are all different and interpret or experience things in different ways.
Be gentle with yourself and cultivate kindness.
Reclaim your power by giving yourself permission to fail, treating yourself with compassion, trusting the process, and speaking to yourself in ways that motivate and inspire rather than shame and diminish.
““You are allowed to be both a masterpiece and a work in progress, simultaneously.” ”
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20 Reasons to Book a Boudoir Photo Shoot | Boudoir Photography in Scottsdale, Mesa, Gilbert, Phoenix Area
As if you needed one, we are going to give you 20 reasons to book a boudoir photo shoot! But trust me, this list is not inclusive, because there are way too many to list here! And perhaps some we haven’t even heard of yet.
As if you needed one, we are going to give you 20 reasons to book a boudoir photo shoot! But trust me, this list is not inclusive, because there are way too many to list here! And perhaps some we haven’t even heard of yet.
20 Reasons To Book a Boudoir Shoot:
1. You need to feel like yourself again.
It’s been a while since you’ve treated yourself and you may be feeling a little unsure who YOU are these days. Get out and do something that will help you rediscover what a vivacious and extraordinarily fun person you are!
2. You lost weight, you gained a few pounds, or you’ve remained the same.
Listen, you don’t have to lose weight to do a shoot like this. Show yourself you are beautiful and capable of loving who you are just as you are.
3. You're tying the knot.
Wedding bells in you’re near future. Document this special time in your life while also gifting your forever guy some sexy photos of you!
4. You’re single and living your best life.
You don’t need a man to have your boudoir photos taken. Do it for yourself because you CAN, you should, and you deserve to be celebrated.
5. You’ve finalized a divorce.
Want to explore what it’s like to just be you again? What better way to restart and introduce this new chapter of your life than with a confidence boosting boudoir shoot! Liberate yourself!
6. Its been too long since you’ve treated yourself.
Carve out some time to pamper yourself. A boudoir session can help you unwind and recharge from all of that hard work you’ve been putting in!
7. You’re celebrating an anniversary.
What better way to remind him that he totally SCORED when he chose you! Even better make celebrate your wedding anniversary just the two of you with a couples boudoir session!
8. You’re feeling spontaneous.
Some of my favorite clients are those who booked their session on a total whim! You only live once and you DONT NEED A REASON. Who knows you might discover something new and exciting about yourself
9. You got a boob job.
Need I say more? Get out and go shopping for some a new bra and some sexy lingerie and wear it to your shoot!
10. You’re turning 30, 40, 50, 60!
Each birthday marks a new season of life. What are you going to do with it? Time to say “Happy birthday to me!” and gift yourself!
11. You just got a promotion.
Yes girl! Hard work and dedication pays off. Celebrate your mf self!
12. Your inner critic told you not to.
Probably the BEST REASON EVER!!! Talk back to your ego and refuse to be held back by limiting beliefs and negative voices telling you that you aren’t good enough. You can’t do something is an opinion NOT a fact.
13. You are done hating your body.
You’ve hated your body for far too long and you don’t deserve that. Liberate yourself from unrealistic beauty standards and take the next step toward learning to love your self unconditionally.
14. You want to SPICE UP your marriage or sex life.
Just wait until he sees these! Ok — disclaimer, boudoir can’t fix a marriage but physical and emotional intimacy can play a huge part in building and maintaining healthy relationships.
15. You are in the best shape of you’re life.
This ones tricky, because I cant even tell you how many women years after their boudoir session said “I don’t know why I didn’t do this sooner. I didn’t even realize how good I looked because I was too fixated on perfection” If you’ve reached a fitness milestone JUST DO IT! You’re future self will thank you.
16. You got a new tattoo.
Tattoos are often on the list of what do you want to highlight in your images. And it’s easy to see why. If you love your tattoos its especially fun to come back for more images as you get more and more artwork done!
17. You’ve just had a baby.
Whether you are a new mom or a seasoned mom carve out some YOU time to relax, have fun, and take a break from packing lunches, changing diapers, cleaning up, and mediating meltdowns (mom life). For real, You EARNED it momma!
18. You are now an empty nester.
You’re kids are grown and doing what grown folks do. Now YOU get to have all of the fun! DO THE SHOOT!
19. Your going through a low season.
Re-charge and do something that will remind you just how amazing and capable you really are. You are resilient, a queen, a bad ass b**** and YOU’VE GOT THIS!
20. You are worthy af.
Stop stopping yourself. Every woman deserves to feel loved, sexy, and empowered. You are gorgeous. You are worth it. PERIOD.
Are you ready to feel amazing?
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Miss S. Shares Her Scottsdale Experience | Boudoir Photography in Scottsdale, Arizona
Miss S, a bride to be, came to Bella Jade Boudoir wanting to feel sexy and comfortable in her own skin. She admits that in general she comes off as confident to others but like many women deals with some insecurities behind closed doors. She shares with us what her Scottsdale boudoir photography session was like at our studio. Miss S. says “This definitely changed my view. I felt so good during and after the shoot!” We are so excited that she has allowed us to share her story and some of the boudoir photos from her photo shoot with us!
Miss S, a bride to be, came to Bella Jade Boudoir wanting to feel sexy and comfortable in her own skin.
She admits that in general she comes off as confident to others but like many women deals with some insecurities behind closed doors. She shares with us what her Scottsdale boudoir photography session was like at our studio.
We are so thankful that she has also allowed us to share some of her boudoir photos with you and hope that one day you’ll get to experience this for yourself!
Miss S. says…
“This definitely changed my view. I felt so good during and after the shoot!”
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
Getting married and I wanted to feel sexy and comfortable in my own skin.
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
I followed her private Facebook group for awhile before I took the plunge.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
More work in progress. I come off as confident to others but deal with my insecurities behind closed doors. This definitely changed my view. I felt so good during and after the shoot!
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
I was worried I would pick apart my photos after. I LOVE THEM. I wish I would’ve scheduled an all day shoot!
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
Christina!!! She poses you and keeps the mood light and fun. Leah glammed me up and I felt so good.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Just. Do. It.
Would you recommend Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?
Heck yes! Everyone I’m going to show I’m gonna tell them about the Facebook group.
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Miss M. Shares Her Phoenix Boudoir Photography Experience | Best Boudoir Photographer in Scottsdale, Arizona
I am fairly confident and became even more last year. The process really did change the way I see myself. Just because I thought I was pretty or looked good a certain way, doesn't mean I think everyone thinks that of me. But being hyped up and being told that I am doing great really affirmed me because it wasn't just my looks that were being cheered on, it was my excitement, personality, and the little bit of sass while doing the shoot! It was clear that she doesn't do this just to Photoshop your body into whatever "ideal" image we think of, but it was more of growing and nurturing her clients' confidence and happiness.
“... Being hyped up and being told that I am doing great really affirmed me because it wasn’t just my looks that were being cheered on, it was my excitement, personality, and the little bit of sass while doing the shoot! It was clear that she doesn’t do this just to Photoshop your body into whatever “ideal” image we think of, but it was more of growing and nurturing her clients’ confidence and happiness.”
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
I went through a huge weight loss and few life events that motivated me to do any and every little thing I have ever wanted to do. All of these events have made me really appreciate my mind and body. And I have always wanted to do a boudoir session so I thought now rather than later is the best time!
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
By looking at reviews and her styling, I could tell that Christina was different. She didn't have every girl in the same red lipstick with zhuzhed up hair. Everyone just looked so happy and natural - that was exactly what I wanted.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
I am fairly confident and became even more last year. The process really did change the way I see myself. Just because I thought I was pretty or looked good a certain way, doesn't mean I think everyone thinks that of me. But being hyped up and being told that I am doing great really affirmed me because it wasn't just my looks that were being cheered on, it was my excitement, personality, and the little bit of sass while doing the shoot! It was clear that she doesn't do this just to Photoshop your body into whatever "ideal" image we think of, but it was more of growing and nurturing her clients' confidence and happiness.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
I had no fears until I literally pulled up. I suddenly felt like I couldn't do this or I would make a fool of myself if I showed the picture to anyone. But then I calmed myself down and just said that I made the appointment and drove here so just do it. Luckily I did because it was the best experience EVER. Everything went great, maybe I wish I looked at a few more outfit ideas because now I am always in awe of other gals' outfits in pictures!
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
Although I loved the whole experience of taking the pictures, the day I was able to come in and see them first-hand was incredible. As I said, I feel like I am confident, but when I got to see the pictures printed out and in front of me, I got teary-eyed because I really did THAT. I really look like THAT. It was a beautiful moment for me and I really needed that.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Make sure you plan your few outfits well in advance and be confident about the choices, don't overthink the idea of someone posing you/taking pics of you kind of nearly naked (because it literally doesn't phase her), hype yourself up with a badass playlist, and just know that no one can have a say about your pictures because they are for YOU because YOU love YOU!
Miss M says —
Also, if you are reading this and are contemplating getting a boudoir shoot done, just do it. This is the sign to do it!
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Miss E. 's Bella Jade Boudoir Photography Experience | Phoenix Scottsdale Boudoir Photographer
When we learn that every inch of us is both flawed and flawless, we release the chains of thinking our body defines who we are. Miss E shares how her boudoir experience brought her the realization that she has always been a stunner!
Miss E share her Bella Jade Boudoir Experience
When we learn that every inch of us is both flawed and flawless, we release the chains of thinking our body defines who we are. Miss E shares how her experience brought her the realization that she has always been a stunner!
“I’ve always considered myself a confident person but I hide behind the camera and don’t enjoy the way I’m photographed. After this experience, it opened my eyes to how beautiful my body is and the confidence I can have wearing what I want.”
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
I chose to do a boudoir shoot because I had a friend who had done it and I loved how her photos came out. Then as I read into it I saw the confidence and beauty it gave the women and knew I wanted to end 2020 on a positive note.
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
I Googled a lot of different photographers in the Phoenix area but The Bella Jade Collection stood out because the models in the photos were real women with natural beauty versus the cookie-cutter expectations.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
I've always considered myself a confident person but I hide behind the camera and don't enjoy the way I'm photographed. After this experience, it opened my eyes to how beautiful my body is and the confidence I can have wearing what I want.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
I feared that I wouldn't vibe with my photographer or open up as much as I could, but during the photoshoot, I felt at ease and knew it was a safe place to let it all out. I do wish I would have brought some drinks or something to loosen up my nerves so I could be more fluid.
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
My favorite part was the makeover and all the positive energy of being told I rock an outfit and that the choices I brought were fun and playful. I never felt like what I had going was too risky.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
I would say just go for it. I'm all about living in the moment and doing what you want/what makes you happy. If you think it's a good idea then do it. Don't question other people. Just go and schedule it and come into it with the confidence you have when you feel your best.
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Miss I. Shares Her Scottsdale Boudoir Photography Experience | Phoenix Boudoir Photography
Miss I was so kind as to allow us to share some of her boudoir photos along with some insight to what it was like doing a plus size boudoir session with us. She says “this experience showed me that no matter our size we can still look sexy!” Learn more about her boudoir experience with as at Bella Jade Boudoir in Scottsdale, Arizona. She also shares some really great advice for anyone considering doing their own boudoir shoot.
“This experience showed me that no matter our size we can still look sexy!”
What inspired you to pursue a Scottsdale boudoir session?
I follow a lot of women on Instagram who have had it done and seeing them as confident and sexy made me want to feel that way about myself.
Why did you choose Bella Jade Boudoir The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
I chose The Bella Jade Collection because I love the feel of her pictures. Sometimes boudoir pictures online all look like they're from the same set of filters. Christina's looked natural without the heavy filters.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this boudoir experience change the way you see yourself?
I'm definitely a work in progress for my confidence. The experience showed me that no matter our size we can still look sexy as hell!
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
I was worried that I would take all these pictures and then at the end hate them all. I mean how many times have I had my husband take a picture only to hate and make sure it never saw the light of day. But when I went to see my images I loved them all! And the thing I wish I would've done differently? DO NOT SPRAY TAN! If it's a new thing or place don't experiment. I ended up with some weird lines but thank goodness for Christina!
What was your favorite part about your Scottsdale boudoir experience?
My favorite part was how much fun it was. There wasn't this pressure to feel like some sexy Victoria Secret model. We laughed, we listened to my favorite music, and made some sexy photos during!
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Do it! Everyone says that's their advice but it's so true. Buy the sexy lingerie or just wear the soft blanket and see the pictures and know it was SO worth it.
Would you recommend Bella Jade Boudoir to a friend?
100% I would recommend The Bella Jade Collection to everyone.
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Miss L Shares Her Boudoir Experience | A Tastefully Topless and Glamorous Photography Shoot in Gilbert, Phoenix, Scottsdale Arizona
Miss L. had scheduled a couples boudoir session at our Gilbert Arizona studio. When she found out that her fiance wasn’t going to be able to make it - she shifted her mindset and decided to come in anyway for a personal shoot and make the best of it! And, she was so glad that she did. Of course it wasn’t a decision that wasn’t met with some fears at first.
Since then — we’ve asked her a few questions and she graciously shares that experience with us and how it actually felt once it was really happening!
Miss L. had scheduled a couples boudoir session at our Gilbert Arizona studio. When she found out that her fiance wasn’t going to be able to make it - she shifted her mindset and decided to come in anyway for a personal shoot and make the best of it! And, she was so glad that she did. Of course it wasn’t a decision that wasn’t met with some fears at first.
Since then — we’ve asked her a few questions and she graciously shares that experience with us and how it actually felt once it was really happening!
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“... If you would have ever told me I would be doing topless photos in my underwear I would have never believed it! ”
What inspired you to pursue a boudoir session?
Originally scheduled the shoot as a couples shoot and my fiancé wasn’t available so I said “Why Not?” And made the most of it. Now I know how much fun I had I am even more excited to reschedule my couples shoot with my fiancé!
Why did you choose The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
Because I know good shit when I see it! And one look at the website and their work. I was sold! :)
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?
I have always been very self conscious of my body. My butts too flat, my stomach too flabby, my boobs too small. The minute I walked into my shoot I was so comfortable! If you would have ever told me I would be doing topless photos in my underwear I would have never believed it!
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
Oh of course! The simple feelings we all have “what if my fiancé doesn’t find them sexy?” “What if I look horrible?” “how do you be sexy???” But they bring it out of you! I don’t know how these girls do it! But they do!
What was your favorite part about your boudoir experience?
Ummmm every single second of it! Laughing and chatting with what felt like friends while getting my hair and make up done, laughing at how awkward I can be, feeling sexy every time Christina would yell “yaaaaassss” and I knew we got a good one!, the hours of debating between pictures because I loved them all and Christina put up with me so patiently and helping me narrow it down. I’m talking hours!
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Do it! Just do it! Don’t overthink it! Don’t second guess yourself! Just do it! You won’t regret it!
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Miss E Says Go in with an Open Mind & Have Fun | Boudoir Photography in Phoenix, Mesa, Gilbert, Arizona
Miss E. came in for a boudoir session because she wanted to feel sexy and confident in her own skin. After her session, we asked her to share her experience in her own words. Here is what her boudoir shoot was like at our Gilbert studio.
Her advise — go in with an open mind and have fun!
Miss E. came in for a boudoir session because she wanted to feel sexy and confident in her own skin. After her session, we asked her to share her experience in her own words. Here is what her boudoir shoot was like at our Gilbert studio.
Her advise:
Go in with an open mind and have fun!
What inspired you to pursue a boudoir session?
I wanted to feel sexy and confident in my own skin. Plus have great looking pictures!
Why did you choose The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
After looking around and reading all the reviews of other women felt this was the best place to feel comfortable and sexy.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress?
Definitely a work in progress.
Did this experience change the way you see yourself?
Heck yes! Felt I could take on the world after.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them?
Overall just nerves of being in an intimate setting with someone you've never met before.
Anything you wish you would have done differently?
Nothing different. More time.
What was your favorite part about your boudoir experience?
Everything! The whole experience is fantastic.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Go in with an open mind and have fun.
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Miss T Does Boudoir Session with Pistol and Shares Her Experience | Boudoir Photography in Phoenix, Mesa, Gilbert, Arizona
Miss T. came in for a boudoir session and while she was a little nervous at booking, it didn’t take long for her to break out of the nerves and into her sexy self! She even brought in a pistol to use as a prop and I am so glad that she did because these turned out absolutely amazing.
After her session we asked her to share her experience with us from the nerve racking start to the empowering images that she now gets to look back on for years to come.
If you are considering a boudoir shoot and not quite sure what to expect this is a great read as you can really see from our own clients perspective what a great experience this really is!
Miss T. came in for a boudoir session and while she was a little nervous at booking, it didn’t take long for her to break out of the nerves and into her sexy self! She even brought in a pistol to use as a prop and I am so glad that she did because these turned out absolutely amazing.
After her session we asked her to share her experience with us from the nerve racking start to the empowering images that she now gets to look back on for years to come.
If you are considering a boudoir shoot and not quite sure what to expect this is a great read as you can really see from our own clients perspective what a great experience this really is!
What inspired you to pursue a boudoir session?
All the positive feed back from other women who have done one.
Why did you choose The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
She answered all my questions. She reassured me. She talk me through everything. She was very positive and uplifting.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?
I’m a work in progress. I was super scared. After my experience, it changed the way I see myself drastically and I know I am beautiful.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them? Anything you wish you would have done differently?
I had lots of fears and anxiety. I was able to over come them. Christina and my Wife helped me overcome every single one of them. I would have done it sooner if I could’ve had the confidence.
What was your favorite part about your boudoir experience?
All the laughs. Getting out of my comfort zone. And of course seeing the finished product.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Just do it, your beautiful. It is definitely worth it.
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Lay Photo Envy To Rest | Boudoir Photographer in Phoenix, Gilbert, Mesa, Chandler, AZ
Photo envy. Ever caught it? Lets not fall into that trap. Gilbert, Phoenix boudoir photographer talks about boudoir photo envy and the best way to lay jealousy to rest.
Have you ever found yourself with a case of photo envy?
I sat down with a client the other day for her boudoir consultation and she says to me something like this
“ I’ve always fantasized about being like the women in these photos. You know the perfectly curated photographs — a woman standing in her power with tastefully crafted make up and the breath taking light behind her. She looks so confident and so beautiful. I love that. It inspires me…
I want to create that feeling with my boudoir shoot.
I want to feel that”.
What I loved most about this conversation is that she talked these women up so courageously.
She didn’t waste her energy by cringing at the untruth - the trap we sometimes fall in of thinking that moment and feeling is reserved for women like someone else. NOPE.
She talked in a way that celebrated all women and their ability to step into their more confident self and live out their own moment.
She believed in herself and our ability to create something beautiful together that would inspire her to feel that way, too.
But there’s another side that we don’t talk about much. Not publicly anyway… Another direction the conversation could have gone. I’m talking about photo envy. Ever caught it?
I have. And, so many other women have to. I’m talking about when you see another like the woman pictured, standing in her moment, and
you find yourself looking with envy instead of elation.
Let’s not fall into that, babe. I don’t want to live there in that crippling space, do you? Because,
being envious, love
— is poisonous to your spirit.
The women in these photographs are gorgeous. Yes. They deserved every bit of standing in their power and feeling like a queen. And you do too! You don’t have to envy her. Celebrate her instead. Then take the next step towards investing in your own confidence.
Celebrate yourself!
I’m telling you, babe. The quickest way to cure photo envy is to do a shoot for you. Find your why, seek for what inspires you, fantasize and evolve your most confident self as we bring that vision to life by doing your own boudoir shoot
— the photo shoot of your dreams that celebrates you and gives you the same gift of confidence as the women in the photos that you see.
Lay jealousy and envy to rest, babe. Let it inspire you to step into your own power, instead.
When you are ready to experience a boudoir photo shoot for yourself, when you desire to feel like that and find it in you to trust the process you WILL see the transformation for yourself. We will talk through your why, move through your self conscious and design a photo shoot that will inspire you to love yourself more and see yourself as the confident and empowered woman that you are.
What do you desire?
Book your very own Gilbert boudoir session here.
Miss R shares Her Experience Plus Check out This Totally Hot Fireman Boudoir Idea | Gilbert, Phoenix Boudoir Photography
Miss R shares her experience. A fireman themed boudoir photoshoot with us at our Phoenix boudoir photography studio in Gilbert. She talks about how her boudoir shoot helped elevate her self esteem and leave her feeling absolutely fabulous after 50!
Miss R had thought about doing a boudoir shoot for a while — and with the support of her husband and our boudoir group she decided to make it happen & invest in herself.
She shares her experience with us at our Gilbert boudoir studio and how her boudoir shoot helped elevate her self esteem and leave her feeling absolutely fabulous after 50!
We are so thankful that she has allowed us to share her story and images. We loved hanging out with this babe and super stoked about these totally hot fireman themed boudoir photos. What an awesome idea and gift for her husband and herself.
What inspired you to pursue a boudoir session?
I've dreamed of a boudoir session since I was in my 20's. Being in my 50's has been my best life yet. What better way to celebrate than to celebrate Me!
Why did you choose The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
A friend had invited me to the Bella Jade Collection Facebook page. Once I saw the incredible photos, I was hooked! My savings account began that day!
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?
My confidence has always been good. Now, my shoulders are back even more, my head is higher and my self esteem...well I'm smiling more than ever when I look at myself in the mirror!
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them? Anything you wish you would have done differently?
Fears were only my nerves. I only overcame them through the help of Christina. She is incredibly relaxing, she reassured me through every moment. Only thing I would have done differently is I would have gotten more into it, let myself go a little more. I would have been more of who my husband sees so it would have shown in more pictures.
What was your favorite part about your boudoir experience?
The reveal. Seeing the video. Seeing, and hearing, my husband's reactions to each photo.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Trust in the process. You're incredibly beautiful, feel it! Take suggestions and do what you also know works for you.
Have you been putting off booking your very own boudoir photo shoot? You can schedule a quick phone chat with your Gilbert boudoir photographer here.
Breast Cancer Warrior does Boudoir Session to Reconnect with Her Body | Gilbert, Mesa, Tempe, Phoenix, Boudoir Photography
What I love about boudoir photography is helping women see and reconnect with their feminine and show them just how capable and sexy they really are.
Miss E. came into the studio needing to reconnect with herself after multiple surgeries that left her feeling less confident.
Miss E. says this was a very special experience for her and she wanted other women like herself to know that they can do this too! She has so graciously shared her story and experience with us here and we are incredibly thankful.
Read on to hear her story and how this boudoir shoot inspired her to appreciate her body.
What I love about boudoir photography is helping women realize their beauty and show them just how capable and sexy they really are.
Miss E. came into the studio needing to reconnect with herself after multiple surgeries that left her feeling less confident.
After her session she reached out to me and said this was a very special experience for her and she wanted other women like herself to know that they can do this too! She has so graciously shared her story and experience with us here and we are incredibly thankful.
Read on to hear her story and how this boudoir shoot inspired her to appreciate her body.
What inspired you to pursue a boudoir session?
To learn to love and appreciate my body after a double mastectomy, multiple surgeries and complications which results in multiple scars and no reconstruction.
Why did you choose The Bella Jade Collection for your boudoir experience?
I reached out to several photographers and Christina actually listened to my specific situation and gave advice based on my needs.
Do you consider yourself a confident person or more of a work in progress? Did this experience change the way you see yourself?
Work in progress. When I saw these photos, I felt like I was able to appreciate how my husband and others see my body.
Did you have any fears going into this? Were you able to overcome them? Anything you wish you would have done differently?
Definitely. I was worried I wouldn’t look like myself, I wouldn’t feel comfortable, I would still feel I look disfigured. I would have played my specific music, but Christina found a good mix of music that fit me.
What was your favorite part about your boudoir experience?
Seeing the final product.
Do you have any advice for someone considering their own boudoir photo shoot?
Do it! Take the chance and be amazed at what your body is capable of.
Anything else you’d like to share?
I am so happy I found Christina! From our first interaction, to the consultation and follow through.... Christina took the time to make sure everything was how I was hoping.
“After having a double mastectomy and multiple infections and complications, I ended up being flat with lots of scars. I was looking to do a photo shoot to help reconnect with my new body. When I met Christina, she took the time to listen and give me advice for my specific situation. She never made me feel like I was any different then any of the other women she has worked with. She made me feel comfortable and relaxed through her professionalism and experience. She has allowed me to see my body from a different perspective.”
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Top 10 Reasons to Brave the Boudoir | Glamour & Boudoir Photography in Phoenix, Scottsdale, AZ
Boudoir Pictures, Intimate Portraits, Sexy Photo Shoot - whatever you want to call it. if you are still not convinced that booking a boudoir shoot should be at the top of your to do list top rated boudoir photographer in Phoenix shares the Top 10 reasons why it should be.
“Women feel like we need permission... we need to lead and change that.”
Boudoir Pictures, Intimate Portraits, Sexy Photo Shoot, "that one time she slipped out of her nighties and into her feminine wild and sexy birthday suit" - whatever you want to call it.
You've heard about it, you've thought about it, you've pinned it, insta fed it, and tucked it under the safe white sheets, where it exists only in your dreams. But now it's time to stop just dreaming about it, get out from under the covers, have some fun being unapologetically you and
brave the boudoir (boo-dwah).
If you are thinking why me? Or whats the occasion? I am going to let you in on a little secret. Boudoir not just for models, bride to be's and magazine covers. It's for women. Women of all shapes and sizes, ages, and stages of this crazy life. Whether you are married, single, living the good life or counting your blessings to stay sane boudoir should be (if not already) on your to do list - right now.
You are the occasion.
I am talking to the everyday woman - the chaos coordinators, the mamma bears, and boss babes. I totally get it. The dodging, the juggling, and the go-getting because well, life happens. But, today I am asking you to take a deep breath in...
slow down and give yourself a talking to.
"I am enough."
"I am sexy."
"I am worth it."
And, if you are still not convinced that booking a boudoir shoot should be at the top of your to do list among all of that other stuff, let me tell you the Top 10 reasons why it should be!
Top 10 Reasons to Book a Boudoir Shoot Today:
- Because no one can love you like you can.
- Let's be honest, you are not getting any younger.
- Confidence is your best asset.
- Someday your Grandchildren (when the time is right, of course) will know that Grandma had it going on.
- Self love is one hell of a happy drug. *my personal favorite
- Photography was not invented just for selfies. Like seriously, you know what I'm talking about.
- Playing dress up never goes out of style. Ever.
- Your body is a fricking wonderland (excuse my French)!
- Your inner self called and said you need a break.
- For real though, you haven't stop thinking about it anyway :)
Our full service studio offers glamour and boudoir photography serving the Phoenix, Scottsdale, Tempe, Chandler, AZ area where photo-shoots take place at our very own private studio in uptown historic arts district. For more information on our shoots or to begin planning your very own boudoir session contact your Phoenix boudoir photographer today. We would love to talk with you about your vision and how we can personalize a photo-shoot that inspires you to simply feel sexy being yourself!
Com' on, girl. Brave the boudoir (boo-dwah) whatever.
I can not wait to share this experience with you.
Get Ready to Bring It | White Sheet Boudoir Photography | Phoenix Scottsdale Boudoir Photographer
I can't even believe it took me this long to share this gorgeous woman's boudoir shoot with you all.
It is so important to my mission - helping women find confidence and inspiring you to celebrate yourself each and every day... whether it is something as exciting as a boudoir shoot or as simple as spending a quiet Sunday sipping sweet tea listening to your favorite songs. Whatever it may be, you are worth it.
Miss K walked in excited and energetic. She had that I trust you and I am ready to bring it kind of vibe. Her positivity and confidence was oozing before we even began shooting and I cant say enough how beautiful that is! Truthfully, no matter what your size is or any perceived imperfections you may have, if you put your trust in your boudoir photographer, and arrive prepared and open-minded - you may surprise yourself!
I strongly believe that part of being a great boudoir photographer is understanding how women see themselves. Not women in general - but each woman as an individual person. That requires a level of honesty and trust from both of us - that for many can be a pretty vulnerable state. If the thought of talking about your not so perfect bits raises your fear flag, hear me out.
I want to get to know you. Before every session I try to discover what it is you love about yourself and what it is you are not so excited about. If we are being real - some have scratched their head to this idea but I believe it is an important part of becoming the best version of yourself you can be. And - that is what I want to capture during our time together.
I'm sure, you and I both know that there is always going to be something about your body you don't absolutely love. Am I right? My goal is not to magically make that disappear but to encourage you to just plain be OK with it.
Why? Because, whether you consider yourself to be a plus-sized woman, curvy girl, (any other of those terms we try so hard to avoid) or feel just right the truth is that all of that physical stuff becomes much less important when you are focused on self love.
I just had to feature this session so you can see what I mean. Seriously, when you bring the kind of energy to your boudoir shoot that Miss K did I can promise you will be ecstatic with how great you are going to look and feel!
Miss K chose to keep things simple for her glamour shoot with a white sheet boudoir session at our natural light photography studio in Phoenix Historic District - aiming to celebrate her sexy so that we could capture her looking and feeling her most confident.
This entire session is the epitome of what I believe fine art boudoir photography should be about.
I am so thankful that Miss K allowed me to share her private photos with you. I hope these images inspire you to find your own confidence and treat yourself every once in a while!